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lilcoquette

57 F San Rafael, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:52am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm proud of where I am in my life. The woman I see in the mirror is beautiful inside and out. Pleasant, kind, charming, intelligent. Speaks her mind and stands on her own two feet.
High Capacity & Brilliant Expression!
You might think "A Surprise package!" A woman of many layers composed by living a full life of interesting experiences. Currently constructing a less complicated life., but no less impulsively creative. Looking for something simple yet deep in the pleasure of a man's company. "No ordinary Love" This takes time and a willing participant. There in lies the challenge and here we are.....

I've raised a son, now a man, who makes me smile and say I love you. We're close.

I've created a business for myself combining my skills & talent to design and fabricate interiors for exclusive designers and "A" list clients. Most important, beyond this achievement, my work is also my art. I look forward to it everyday.
The man I'm looking for will applaud and encourage me to pursue everything my work and creative life holds.

Been lucky to travel over the years, Europe & Africa. I dream of making my way to So. East Asia, India. Once lived on a 90 year old Baltic Trader, open ocean sailing Nassau to Nova Scotia.
Mark Twain said something like travel is the death of prejudice, intolerance, and one more thing I can't recall.....You get the meaning, very true.

As I said at the top -many layers.
What I’m doing with my life
Spend very early mornings on my yoga mat. Starting my day after practice is perfect. Almost impossible to allow the small stuff to bug me.

Contemplating my next chapter, staying aware, open, paying attention. Being available to my friends and family, there is life's pleasure

Looking for a "Tango" Partner, my grandfather studied adagio with Fred Astaire and had me on the dance floor from age two...my son's father is Cubano, can we all say salsa.
If you are afraid of the dance floor? How about at home in private?

Helping mom on her journey thru her diagnosis of leukemia.
I’m really good at
Conversation & Back Bends (not at the same time but have been known to giggle upside down)
Loving my dog.
Heirloom Tomato Salad.
Learning something new.
Eye contact.
Touch - texture - truth
The first things people usually notice about me
Gorgeous smile, big brown eyes. Sincere and engaging.
Can do attitude.
Mystery
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Whew! This could take a while..but in a good way :-)

Donnie Hathaway, Annie Lennox, Mick Hucknall (Simply Red)
Gabby Pahinui & Izzy Kamakawiuo'ole. Lenny Kravitz, TOOL.
Herbie Hancock, Sly Stone, Dinah Washington.
Etta...Ella....Aretha....love the way they sing with soul.

Dance Music: Old school salsa or New school tango
Raw edgy sexy blues...

Re reading a collections of short stories about women from the past.
Outrageous, Risky, courageous, inspiring...
Herman Hesse, Narcissus & Goldman.
Isabelle Allende, Ines of My Soul.
Anais Nin. "Life shrinks and expands in proportion to one's courage"
BKS Iyengar, Light on Life.

Oh yeah,,, The latest issue of "W"
The six things I could never do without
My family - my son
Inspiration
Iyengar yoga
Color & Texture
Seam Stockings & Garter Belt
Kindness of strangers
My dog Zipper...
a man with a creative heart & the soul of a poet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The generosity life has to offer when I open myself to the moment.
I'm fortunate to be a woman born in this culture and this time.
spending time with people I love - who know me and appreciate me just as I am and how far I have come.
Discovering the quality in a life with a man who shares appreciation for truth - has the guts and intention to be present & authentic. What is the ancient secret of the chemistry we humans find undeniable when two people meet and sparks fly, the moon shines brighter, tingles up my spine - butterflies in my stomach. I feel alive ....

Less seriously...when's happy hour start?
On a typical Friday night I am
being myself - available to enjoy a shot of Templeton Rye at home with friends. Late practice at Red Dragon, Finishing a project cuz I can't stop the flow. Never do the same thing around here!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I appreciate body art, I'm proud of a piece i wear... not available for public view (except at Harbon Hot Springs)

I have a tendency to misbehave\....
yet remain true blue and loyal to a fault
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 44–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Have your own high capacity and brilliant expression...... you imagine yourself with a fascinating energetic imaginative woman. Who is determined & dedicated to the pursuit of the best life has in store. You value authenticity You believe Life is for deep kisses, strange adventures, midnight swims, & rambling conversations...
I'm interested if you are:
Authentic - Have a sense of humor.
Emotionally Healthy and available
Ready to explore the next level.
Capable,intelligent, physical. enjoy & nurture the body you walk around in.
Live in the world not just online.
People like you & You like People.
Have dreams & aspirations for the future.
Like to hold hands and kiss in public.
Have integrity - self confidence -compassion
You know how to be vulnerable and playful.
A man who appreciates a woman with brains, a body and a mind of her own.

I'm not interested if you are:
Pretending your way thru life
Have yet to clean up any mess you've made.
Smoke cigarettes or practice other addictions