I love the beach, football, jazz and life! I'm looking for my next best friend.. I'm outgoing, and can be a barrell of laughs in the right situation. I'm really pretty carefree right now, just enjoying being me!
Robot says I need to add more, so here are more details: I have very eclectic tastes in just about everything. Specfically in men, I love height, preferably over 5'9. Over 6'3" catches my eye. I have an innate preference for black men, (nothing is sexier than a medium to dark chocolate brotha') but, again I have eclectic tastes and substance trumps style for me. I have been attracted to and dated men of different nationalities, ethnicities and races, so don't let that be a deterrent. I tend to shy away from buttoned down, conservative, or conservative looking types. I like bald headed, facial hair wearing, he-man types, but I always thought there was something sexy about Clark Kent. I like a guy who has been somewhere, done something and can articulate the experience. I've had my heart broken, before (who hasn't?), but not recently. Mostly though, I've just been dissapointed.
I love to laugh, I love truly funny comedies, and some sci-fi (not a trekkie, sorry, i just don't get it), I love weird mysterioso type stuff (x-files, Lost, Flashforward have you seen it?) and zombie type monster movies. Most importantly, what you should know is that I've experienced a lot of BS (curiosity, players, drama-queens, married-men, etc), so my guard is up. Someone said "don't waste my time" I feel like that too, if you just want an internet buddy, I'm not the one. If you want a FWB, I'm not the one. If you want to borrow money, I'm not the one. And if you want to get your green-card, I'm really not the one. If you're still reading, maybe we can talk.
Oh, and one more thing, for those of you who message me, please accept my apology now, if I don't reply. I'm not sure if there is an easy way to respond and say I'm not interested. I feel really bad when I don't reply, but I have done that in the past and then the guy says "Why"? So even though you may meet all of my stated criteria, I still may not be "feeling you". Trust me, since I haven't spoken to you, it's probably not you, it's me....

I'm working on a new business venture, recently moved to the beach and trying to adjust to Florida weather.

Problem solving, being a good friend and even better arm candy.

My smile???

I love seafood, conch, shrimp, scallops and grouper... I love scary sci-fi movies, romantic comedies, and old black and white classics...

my children
spirituality
great friends
love
sunshine
the ocean

Why it's so difficult to connect!

Enjoying a glass of wine, popcorn and a great movie from Netflix, or Monk...

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You are really interested in getting to know me. If you LOVE curves, and brains.