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41 F Kampen, Finland

My Details

Last Online
Jul 20
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Swedish (Fluently), Finnish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am myself. I have many identities which coexist peacefully. It would be pretentious to say I can not be defined or that I don't define myself but I would like to think there is more to me than what first meets the eye. I walk my own road but love company, I am feminine on the outside but not as much inside, strong but also sensitive, intelligent yet often a little unmindful, patient but restless, independent but shy to make the first move, the list continues...
My life philosophy is to stay positive and to try see many sides of a situation and the good in people.
What I’m doing with my life
Taking care of myself and those I care about and seeing where life takes me while working, travelling, meeting people, finding new friends and other things that interest me, reading, walking, observing, enjoying life!
I’m really good at
being kind, my job, maths, baking, solving problems and fixing things, conversation, helping out, making people feel comfortable, procrastinating, sleeping and hopefully more things I'm not aware of myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure but I would hazard a guess that it is my eyes and with new people the fact that I am darker (and perhaps more intense and extrovert) than a Finnish person is expected to be.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love all good food, especially starters and deserts!
I have a wide taste in books but if I need to just entertain myself my first choice is usually scifi.
I enjoy the theatre, musicals, modern dance, and especially films and documentaries. Opera and sopranos rarely.
The six things I could never do without
Sleep, good food, people (friends) to have intelligent conversations with, my books, my iphone (I'm being honest here), and my lovers.
And I could do without any or all of these except sleep if there was reason enough. I'm too mindful to get addicted or dependent.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
mainly irrelevant things or weird theories. I prefer to exist rather than over-analyse things.
I also like to think by talking, this does sometimes get me into trouble.
On a typical Friday night I am
at home, out with friends. Friday is just a day like any other.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is listed in "I'm looking for" and in my details and the fact that I am turned on by intelligence. The rest you will have to find out yourself.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 29–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
what I have written resonates with you.
You too feel yourself "different".

Please do not contact me just because I am female, bisexual, "Scandinavian" or open to casual sex. All of that is irrelevant.