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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 43-62
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 1, 2012
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Christianity and it’s important
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a beautiful self sufficient woman with a big heart, great personality and fantastic tits. LOL. I love throwing that in there cuz its true. Any way been divorced for 20 yrs now and let my self go, while raising 3 wonderful kids on my own. A lawyer, fireman and computer technician. I have lost almost 100 lbs in the last year the hard way. I considered surgery but I don't really get off on taking the easy way out. I figured I could do it my self and I am. I dont know if thats a great opener but am new to this and I want to meet someone who will be honest and up front as well, I am all about honesty and truth. I dont play games and dont get played either. I am a grown women and have been there and done that. If you know what I mean. I would love to be asked out on a date as I have such pretty new dresses now and want to wear them to a nice place. Dating sites don't have to be complicated, you cant really tell what a person is like until you meet them. Even pictures dont really speak a thousand words. Would love to fall in love.
What I’m doing with my life
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Creating a beautiful future for myself. I have been dumping emotional baggage with every pound I lose. I am building my clientele at a salon in Lawrence and working full time at another job. I am a very busy women and I like it. My future is looking brighter and lighter everyday.
I’m really good at
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Making people feel comfortable and safe. They tell me anything. I guess that's because when I am behind the chair doing their hair their mouths just open up and tell me all kinds of things. If I had a license to be a psychologist I would be. People feel safe telling me their secrets because they know I keep them to myself and only tell my dog or my God if I have to.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and infectious attitude about life, also people have been wondering where I am going as I have lost over 100 lbs this last year. I did it by working out and eating less. I love my new me and I get smaller everyday. I am changing my life pound by pound and am very proud of me. I also help others by sharing my story and inspiring them to change their lives in good, healthy ways.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love all kinds of food in moderation. I watch a lot of movies and consider myself a Movie Buff. I do read books often and love to get to the ocean. Any beach will do as long as its not man made.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Ocean
My Kids
Great friends
Good conversation
My Scale
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future and where God is leading me in my life. Every day I praise the lord for being a light unto my path. I am thankful to be who I am today and would like to share my life with a love that will last forever.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably watching a movie and getting organized for my work day on Saturday. Then on Sunday I am getting organized for my 3 10 hour shifts at work and on my days off I go to the Salon and make people look great as I am also a part time hairstylist.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Is that I let my self go for a long time. I got divorced 20 yrs ago and hung on to the pain and bitterness that made me gain weight. I will never let that happen again. I have always been a hot sexy woman and never had any problems getting a man. I was told by many people that a lot of men like big women. I call bullshit on that. If I don't like me than how can I expect someone else to like me. I didn't feel comfortable in my body and now I am changing it. I am enjoying every minute of the ride too. Every morning I weigh myself and everyday I see more pounds drop. I am going to be so hot I cant hardly stand it. haha.
You should message me if
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You would like to see me in person and take me on a date so I can get all dolled up like the beautiful woman I am. But please dont ask me to email you off the site, until we get to know each other I will not give out my personal info to anyone. Thanks.