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lily_marie

23 / M / bisexual / Single

Santa Clarita, California

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User's profile is refreshing, honest, and clearly thought out. I think we'd be friends in real life, but this award was far more appropriate... read more

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English, French (Okay)

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I am self sustainig, cynical, and sarcastic.

My Self-Summary

I like words, I like the rhymic pacing of good poets, vivid metaphors and deep symbolism. I like trashy novellas and dry textbooks. I like obscure characters and bizarre journeys that few recall. I like dramatic tension and character growth. I love annotations and stage notes, I love discarded pages without clear context. I sometimes buy my books by the disassembled chapter just to see how much I care.

I routinely tell people that I am a motion poet, with a number of good stories. I've tried to find humor and irony in small but meaningful things. I'm not really all that funny, but in the right crowd I'll be able to bring someone to their knees dripping from something I said.

I do not agree that gender is a binary construct, I see it as a spectrum and tend to appreciate people who fall into interesting positions on it.

I do not really adhere to a sexual orientation, I'm attracted to the intangible things that make someone human, much less the shape of their reproductive organs. I spent a while around a theatre, so I take a good look at the masks people wear and the costuming. I listen to the lines to see what the meaning was.

I am not interested in a relationship where someone tries to out-crazy the last relationship I was in. While I think it is very unlikely this could happen... I really do not want to be with someone going for that gold.
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What I’m doing with my life

I'm writing whenever I have a free moment, and editing that relentlessly when I've written something down. I'm sketching poorly when I feel more inspired to just throw the lines around. I've finished school and now looking for the right spot to break into the next chapter of life.

I love new things, if you can introduce me to something I've never heard of before; I'll spend a decent amount of time indulging in attempting to understand it.

I’m really good at

most of the creative arts; given a little time I can generally come up with something amusing. I really enjoy being thrown into an entirely new field.

The first things people usually notice about me

I wear glasses and use large words... they make assumptions.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I usually fall in love with small independently produced works and then find myself with insatiable crushes on old dead people, or fictional characters.

I'm fairly easy going on foodstuffs, I've had some delicious creations in most major styles. I do tend to like vegan foods just as much as others.

The six things I could never do without

1. endless tomes of beautiful words and obscure characters.
2. the good people who keep me sane
3. the various substances that have intriguing effects, perfumes and foods, and well placed booze.
4. I've become rather fond of the computers these days.
5. irony.
6. partners in crime :D

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I spend a lot of time thinking about

the future, the sharp and jagged paths that lead to it and the things which look like people and the people that look like things along the path. My zombie survival plan outclasses your like you wouldn't believe.

On a typical Friday night I am

a homebody recently.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm fairly gender neutral leading toward the femme when I choose to express myself. Otherwise I'm good at blending into crowds, minus the long hair... the long hair is distinctive and gives me away now.

You should message me if

you think we'd get along.

You have something you believe I've not heard of before.