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an artist, a writer, and a smartass

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I am fairly easy to figure out when it comes to what i am looking for....basically...it comes down to this...i am over ideals...they are glossy packages that that seem to hide just how fucked up people really are…i want you flawed...i want you ok with your flaws…i want you to not be scared to admit you are flawed…i just want to know someone REAL…

"Yeah it’s safe to fall in love in your daydreams. Men actually act like…well they act in a way that seems so natural to women, in the only way that really makes sense. They put away their fake charm and let you break down their walls. They want to hold you while taking a bubble bath and they don’t freak out when you tell them you love them. And they actually have the courage to say what they mean without later retracting the statement." - ME

"Forget love...I'd rather fall in chocolate!"-Author unknown

"If you cannot inspire a woman with love of you, fill her above the brim with love of herself; all that runs over will be yours." - Charles Caleb Colton

"A wise girl asks but doesn’t believe: kisses but doesn’t fall in love: & leaves before she gets left." – Marilyn Monroe

"Sex and beauty are inseparable, like life and consciousness. And the intelligence which goes with sex and beauty, and arises out of sex and beauty, is intuition." - D. H. Lawrence

"Women love men for their defects; if men have enough of them women will forgive them everything, even their gigantic intellects." - Oscar Wilde

"Have you ever really thought about it? You got this girl, head over heels in love with you. She’d do anything for you. But for some reason, you don’t want to see that. You know it’s there, but you just won’t accept it, so you try and make her go away…Maybe this girl is perfect for you. And that really scares the hell out of you doesn’t it?" - Author unknown

"I am out of control at times and hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." -Marylin Monroe

"For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time." - Isabel Allende

"Have you ever been In love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different than any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life…You give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside of you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like ‘maybe we should be just friends’ turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just the imagination. Not just the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love." – Neil Gaiman

"We perceive when love begins and when it declines by our embarrassment when alone together." - Jean de la Bruyere

"NEVER settle for average- it’s just as close to the bottom as it is to the top" – anonymous

"As Ray Porter watches Mirabelle walk away he feels a loss. How is it possible, he thinks, to miss a woman whom he kept at a distance so that when she was gone he would not miss her. Only then does he realize that wanting part of her and not all of her had hurt them both and how he cannot justify his actions except that…well…it was life" - Steve Martin (shop girl)

"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love." - Tom Robbins....THAT ALONE SAYS IT ALL!

I AM NOT LOOKING TO FALL IN LOVE! when you start out searching for love you get caught up in fairytales and instant connections that fall flat just as quickly as they started. i want to get to know someone...really know someone and then wake up 6 months later and realize i am bat-shitcrazy about him!

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

well i started my life over...new town, new state, new friends, new direction....so for now i am just trying not to drown...but i will update once life gets to where it needs to be....

I'm really good at Propose an edit

bullshitting...oh yeah and drawing

looking into someones eyes and telling that i'm not the one...not a fun talent to have...sometimes i'd rather be in the dark...

laughing at myself...

understanding YOUR issues...

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

me tripping over my own feet...but my damn i'll be wearing sexy shoes...

and FANTASTIC green eyes staring over top of my glasses

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

books: chick lit, beat, journals, political satire; mainly dark challenging and no pretty endings...i'm a bukowski junkie and can never resist the urge drown myself in oscar wilde....

movies: i'm an 80s baby and John Hughes helped define that decade. Cameron Crowe, Gus Van Sant, David Lynch, Coppola (Frances Ford as well as Sophia), David Fincher, Tim Burton, Stanley Kubrick, John Waters, Terry fucking Gilliam, Sam Raimi and of course TromaVision (i love really shitty horror flicks! guilty pleasure)... i'm a movie junkie, and i could fill this entire page with favorite titles, but that just takes too long...

music: i'm an old school punkrock girl who got lost in the hills of Tennessee jammin to bluegrass, which led to a affair with southern rock, a few puffs later i was wrapped around robert's mic belting out tangerine, threw a tip in Tom's piano jar late one night, then learned the diference between making love, sex, and a fuck after a bottle of bourbon and countless hours of jazz, and i caught the blues on the banks of the mississippi, and became addicted to jane and morphine, but at the end of the day, it's always a sexy songwriter behind an accoustic that turns my wheels...

food: words that will never leave my mouth- "you want me to eat what?"

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

my son, my french roast coffee at 7:30 am, my sketch book, passionate sex, my glasses, my soul

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

me lucky charms

and what part of my body to artistically enhance next.....

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

my days at this point blend together...i wouldn't know a friday night from a tuesday afternoon.....

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

i am desperate for friends...even my cats don't hang anymore

You should message me if Propose an edit

you enjoy sand thrown in your eyes OR a sort of cute brassy lass with occasional quick wit and did i mention the sexy shoes???

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lilybee75: 401 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual encounters (sex partners)
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Aries and it matters a lot
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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