lilybee75
33 / f / straight / single
Greensboro, North Carolina, United States
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an artist, a writer, and a smartass
My self-summary Propose an edit
I am fairly easy to figure out when it comes to what i am looking
for....basically...it comes down to this...i am over ideals...they
are glossy packages that that seem to hide just how fucked up
people really are…i want you flawed...i want you ok with your
flaws…i want you to not be scared to admit you are flawed…i just
want to know someone REAL…
"Yeah it’s safe to fall in love in your daydreams. Men actually act
like…well they act in a way that seems so natural to women, in the
only way that really makes sense. They put away their fake charm
and let you break down their walls. They want to hold you while
taking a bubble bath and they don’t freak out when you tell them
you love them. And they actually have the courage to say what they
mean without later retracting the statement." - ME
"Forget love...I'd rather fall in chocolate!"-Author unknown
"If you cannot inspire a woman with love of you, fill her above the
brim with love of herself; all that runs over will be yours." -
Charles Caleb Colton
"A wise girl asks but doesn’t believe: kisses but doesn’t fall in
love: & leaves before she gets left." – Marilyn Monroe
"Sex and beauty are inseparable, like life and consciousness. And
the intelligence which goes with sex and beauty, and arises out of
sex and beauty, is intuition." - D. H. Lawrence
"Women love men for their defects; if men have enough of them women
will forgive them everything, even their gigantic intellects." -
Oscar Wilde
"Have you ever really thought about it? You got this girl, head
over heels in love with you. She’d do anything for you. But for
some reason, you don’t want to see that. You know it’s there, but
you just won’t accept it, so you try and make her go away…Maybe
this girl is perfect for you. And that really scares the hell out
of you doesn’t it?" - Author unknown
"I am out of control at times and hard to handle. But if you can't
handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my
best." -Marylin Monroe
"For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the
ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time." -
Isabel Allende
"Have you ever been In love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so
vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it
means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up
all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that
nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different than any
other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life…You give them a
piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one
day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your
own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside of you. It eats
you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase
like ‘maybe we should be just friends’ turns into a glass splinter
working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just the
imagination. Not just the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real
gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love." – Neil
Gaiman
"We perceive when love begins and when it declines by our
embarrassment when alone together." - Jean de la Bruyere
"NEVER settle for average- it’s just as close to the bottom as it
is to the top" – anonymous
"As Ray Porter watches Mirabelle walk away he feels a loss. How is
it possible, he thinks, to miss a woman whom he kept at a distance
so that when she was gone he would not miss her. Only then does he
realize that wanting part of her and not all of her had hurt them
both and how he cannot justify his actions except that…well…it was
life" - Steve Martin (shop girl)
"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating
the perfect love." - Tom Robbins....THAT ALONE SAYS IT ALL!
I AM NOT LOOKING TO FALL IN LOVE! when you start out searching for
love you get caught up in fairytales and instant connections that
fall flat just as quickly as they started. i want to get to know
someone...really know someone and then wake up 6 months later and
realize i am bat-shitcrazy about him!
What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit
well i started my life over...new town, new state, new friends, new
direction....so for now i am just trying not to drown...but i will
update once life gets to where it needs to be....
I'm really good at Propose an edit
bullshitting...oh yeah and drawing
looking into someones eyes and telling that i'm not the one...not a
fun talent to have...sometimes i'd rather be in the dark...
laughing at myself...
understanding YOUR issues...
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit
me tripping over my own feet...but my damn i'll be wearing sexy
shoes...
and FANTASTIC green eyes staring over top of my glasses
My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit
books: chick lit, beat, journals, political satire; mainly dark
challenging and no pretty endings...i'm a bukowski junkie and can
never resist the urge drown myself in oscar wilde....
movies: i'm an 80s baby and John Hughes helped define that decade.
Cameron Crowe, Gus Van Sant, David Lynch, Coppola (Frances Ford as
well as Sophia), David Fincher, Tim Burton, Stanley Kubrick, John
Waters, Terry fucking Gilliam, Sam Raimi and of course TromaVision
(i love really shitty horror flicks! guilty pleasure)... i'm a
movie junkie, and i could fill this entire page with favorite
titles, but that just takes too long...
music: i'm an old school punkrock girl who got lost in the hills of
Tennessee jammin to bluegrass, which led to a affair with southern
rock, a few puffs later i was wrapped around robert's mic belting
out tangerine, threw a tip in Tom's piano jar late one night, then
learned the diference between making love, sex, and a fuck after a
bottle of bourbon and countless hours of jazz, and i caught the
blues on the banks of the mississippi, and became addicted to jane
and morphine, but at the end of the day, it's always a sexy
songwriter behind an accoustic that turns my wheels...
food: words that will never leave my mouth- "you want me to eat
what?"
The six things I could never do without Propose an edit
my son, my french roast coffee at 7:30 am, my sketch book,
passionate sex, my glasses, my soul
I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit
me lucky charms
and what part of my body to artistically enhance next.....
On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit
my days at this point blend together...i wouldn't know a friday
night from a tuesday afternoon.....
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit
i am desperate for friends...even my cats don't hang anymore
You should message me if Propose an edit
you enjoy sand thrown in your eyes OR a sort of cute brassy lass
with occasional quick wit and did i mention the sexy shoes???
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My personality awards
Questions She Cares About View all
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- Orgasms are clearly the most important part of sex.
- · I agree.
- · I disagree.
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- Which would do more to improve the world?
- · Fewer stupid people
- · Fewer ugly people
- · This question upsets me
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- "All is fair in love and war."
- · True.
- · False.
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- Which of the following types of intelligence do you most value?
- · Logical / Mathematical
- · Social / Interpersonal
- · Visual / Spatial / Artistic
Tests She's Taken View all
| Title | Her Result - female | Your Result |
|---|---|---|
| Title | Her Result - female | Your Result |
| The 100 Point Sexual Purity Test | 22% pure: Decidedly Perverted | Take it! |
| The Zombie Test | You are a Rank-and-File zombie! | Take it! |
| The Do You Know Your Love Songs? Test | 81% | Take it! |
| The No-Nonsense Career Indicator Test (NNCIT) Test | Tyrant | Take it! |
| The Golden Compass Daemon Test | Jokester Soul | Take it! |







