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lilypadmomma

34 / F / Straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

Her Details

Last Online
May 21
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
Offspring
Has a kid, and wants more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hungarian (Okay)

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My self-summary
Recently I have been trying to discover the wonder of owning a dSLR. Some random things about me: I have often been accused of talking about fictional characters as if they are real people. I can be intense and passionate in a discussion, and I love to talk with people who have different points of view. I can be a bit competitive and stubborn, but I am also generous and tenderhearted.

I love good conversation and the outdoors (campfires, sunshine, fresh snow, and thunderstorms are divine). I'm pretty laid back, and I also love a good adventure. I thoroughly enjoy a good movie or a great book, and I have an affinity for wanting to discuss what I've read or watched with other people. I love entertainment that makes me think.

I also make amazing milkshakes.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a PhD student and single mom. I study the languages and history of ancient Iraq. It is much cooler than I just made it sound. I get to study dead languages and read clay tablets that have been around for thousands of years. I like it.
I’m really good at
Underestimating the time it will take for me to finish a task.

Smiling and laughing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books: A River Runs Through It, The Picture of Dorian Gray, The Lord of the Rings, Till We Have Faces, To Kill a Mockingbird, The Hiding Place, Les Miserables, and many others. I love to read.

Favorite movies: A River Runs Through It, Inception, The Lord of the Rings, Stranger than Fiction, Stardust, Serenity, and many many more. I have a hard time picking favorites (there is just so much to love!). I run a monthly movie group. The Painted Veil might be my favorite movie group pick yet.

I could keep talking about favorite things, but I'll leave it to you to ask me. I really love music and food (Indian and Thai are at the top of this list), so this section could get a bit long.
The six things I could never do without
Faith, Family, Friends (yes, I realize people are not things, but I really could not do without people in my life - also, these are all pretty obvious for most people, so I'll give you some others as well)
Hot Chocolate
Laughter
Ultimate Frisbee
Good Books
Sunshine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The ways in which my (and everyone else's) ideas are inherited from a vast history of past ideas and experiences. What can I say? I like ideas.
On a typical Friday night I am
Swing dancing, hanging with the munchkin (we like to have dance parties and blow bubbles), having dinner or playing games with friends, or studying/working.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If I sound like someone you'd like to get to know, and you can deal with dating a Mormon. If you have a good head on your shoulders, and you enjoy using it. (I don't expect to be with a scholar, but I would like to be with someone who can keep up in and add to an intellectual conversation.) A cheerful disposition is always fantastic. Also, it is a big bonus if you know how to Lindy Hop (and you're willing to dance with me).