Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Saucy, independent woman with a love of humor and fun looking for a
great partnership. Having cruised through my 50's and soon to be
heading into (no don't say it! ) my 60's with grace and good humor,
I am hoping to find a man who is planning on LIVING the second half
of life rather than 'surrendering to the inevitable'. I love the
thrill of debate, lots of laughter and deep long discussions about
life and love and the Universe we live in. And kissing, must never
forget the kissing. But, kissing comes with affection and that
takes some time.
It would be a huge bonus if you are smart and silly. An excellent
sense of humor coupled with smarts is a big turn on. Drama and
neediness is not. I am comfortable with myself and am looking for
someone who is content to be himself.
I am seeking a best friend...someone who wants to take the time to
get to know me before assuming there is a relationship. Rushing
into a relationship is so backwards to true life. It would be
wonderful to just get to know someone slowly and decide after that
if there is a spark, or better yet, let the sparks come BECAUSE you
have spent a lot of time getting to know each other and have
developed that respect and devotion.
I love travel and hiking, camping and luxury hotels, sailing, music
and cooking, dancing in the kitchen, great wine and the company of
friends. I really enjoy baseball at the park. GO GIANTS! Kayaking
and a canoe on the Russian River is fun. How about disc golf, going
up to the telescope in Sugarloaf, drives up the coast while gabbing
our heads off? What do you love?
An excellent sense of humor is a huge bonus.
PLEASE NO FLIRTS! Take the time to write something personal.
I DO NOT RESPOND TO MEN WHO ARE SEPARATED OR EMAILS THAT HAVE NO
PICTURE, IT'S ONLY FAIR THAT YOU POST ONE.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a nurse and an EFT practitioner. Deep conversations about the
universe and the wonder of it all are high on my list. I am very
interested in how quantum physics works, how it means we are all a
part of everything and how we can effect change by changing our
perceptions. Lots of great stuff for conversations and 'what if'
I am also writing a novel and hope to get it finished soon since I
have about 6 other books in my head waiting their turns.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sonoma County has so much to offer....kayaking, hiking, wine
tasting, heading into the city for all sorts of cultural things...
I do a lot of gardening and love animals of all kinds...
Being creative really gets the juices flowing whether that entails
something artsy or something more homegrown.
I am a cat owner and enjoy the companionship of a friendly pet. A
dog is something I would love to have in my life but not until I
I walk frequently for health as well as use my eliptical and try to
eat healthy but do enjoy those treats now and then!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I smile a lot....it seems like people tell me that quite
It's pretty rare for me to be down or blue...life is just too much
fun to not enjoy it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love movies, anything from action adventure, sci-fi, indie and
foreign film and chick flicks, especially love comedies..but avoid
things that are sad, depressing or violent. I recently saw Judy
Dench in The Exotic Marigold Hotel and loved it!
Books, I can't live without them....I am a voracious reader. I love
soft jazz but really dislike electronic jazz. Celtic, folk, and
good old rock n roll are a few musical favorites but I also enjoy
the symphony and even the opera.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well, my kids and grandkids are the first on that list....but,
travel and learning new things as well as cooking and nature have
to be included. And the ocean.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...I really want a friend who is reliable and kind. I want to take
my time to get to know someone...like in real life.
Remember when you used to find someone you were interested in and
it took you ages to talk to that person despite the quick and shy
glances? Then many chats when you bumped into them, then lunch at a
favorite little place in town? Then a trip to a carnival or the
beach...and the time passed and you laughed and got to know each
other and developed healthy respect for each other and slowly, and
as that time went on, you realized THIS is a person I want to be
with? So, you held her hand for the first time?
That is real life. SO many times, people rush and hurry now, trying
to fit round pegs in square holes because they feel the need to get
to 'real relationship' status before any of the true preliminaries
have even occurred.
I don't want to rush, or be rushed by someone else.
Slow and steady ....slow and steady.....you just can't rush these
And, if you got this far, the personality test results on this site
are so bogus. Just because I refuse to answer any questions related
to sex ( since it is no one's business except my future partner) it
says I am less interested LOL.. Ditto for the capitalistic
question....what a weird thing to say about someone so down to
earth. I have to laugh and trust no one takes these things
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sonoma County is such a special place in the world and has so much
to offer. Aren't we lucky to live here? There are so many wonderful
ethnic restaurants and great wineries. Any small venue for great
music, farmers markets and flea markets are all fun. But, nothing
beats a quiet night at home with someone special or camping in a
quiet place with a nice fire and a bottle of wine.
You should message me if
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If you play cards and games, can tell tall tales (but not lies, and
know the difference), if you love to cook or are willing to enjoy
mine, love a fine wine with special dinners ...we might be a match.
Do you love tropical vacations, snorkeling and stamps in your
passport? How about photography? Hiking, CAMPING sailing and
exploring? Do you read good books? How about kayaking or canoeing
on still water? All good.
Things I hope to do? Panning for gold, digging for fossils in Utah
or opal mining in Nevada. See Italy, get back to Hawaii.......and
have a partner who thinks those things are fun.
Care to join me?
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