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29 Minneapolis, MN Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:44pm
Heteroflexible, Sapiosexual
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and laughing about it
Working on Post grad
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a wanderer at heart. Not good at self summaries. Sometimes overly ambitious. Constantly in search of people who can teach me things. Chilled out but craving intensity. Politically left. I am attracted to women but find heteronormativity unattractive.

Before last year I was an INTP; now I've become more judgmental, apparently.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a grad student in the humanities. You might see me reading on the bus or a dingy bar, or staring at a blank word document in a coffee shop. I teach when I need money, and am never very good at describing what it is that I do.

Recently I've been relocating a lot. The last half-year in China; the year before that in Duluth. If it weren't for my books (and kindle is to real bound books as nestle instant is to coffee), living out of two suitcases would be ok.

Overcoming my cynicism.

I also like movies, snowboarding, music, urban exploring, being near bodies of water (even ten thousand of them), and whiskey.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being oblivious
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm probs not paying attention to what is going on in my immediate environment. (see above)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books I'm digging right now: Maxine Hong Kingston, Warrior Woman; Friedrich Kittler, Discourse Networks; I also like Arundhati Roy, Will Faulkner, and Henry James, who writes gems such as: "She had always observed that she got on better with clever women than with silly ones, like herself; the silly ones could never understand her wisdom, whereas the clever ones--the really clever ones--always understood her silliness."

I have a snobby taste in movies: Red Desert, La Chinoise, Breathless, 世界/The World, Stranger in Paradise, Vive L'amour, Bicycle Thief, Yellow Earth, Happy Together, Xala, 2 to 3 things I know about her, The Other Half. I was very underwhelmed by the new Hunger Games.

Television: TWIN PEAKS!! I'm a very sporadic television viewer. My TV is netflix. Other shows I have been obsessed with at certain points in my life: The X-Files, Battlestar Galactica, Dollhouse.

My itunes collection stopped growing sometime in 2006, so here's what I got: modest mouse, 2pac, m.i.a., Nas, NoFX, blink 182, atmosphere, the roots, the fugees, lauryn hill, wilco, lupe fiasco, denizen kane, typical cats, beatles, ani difranco, amy winehouse, lady gaga, some others, I'm kind of out of the loop, but I do love music I swear.

Food: The most recent cooking intrigue for me is how to make very neat looking japanese soba noodles. I've been failing mostly. A successful, although unrelated, experiment with coleslaw happened over thanksgiving however. I like asian cuisines. And newamerican.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
French philosophy
Dreams (and their interpretation)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
watching a movie and/or writing, but most likely drinking
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I've been on pedal pub.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. you've read this far
2. you think you're cooler than sliced bread
3. normalcy bothers you