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lindsay40k

33 M Nottingham, UK

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 18
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I'm genderqueer, which means the question of do I identify as male or female doesn't make any sense to me. Socialist, but not as active as I'd like to be. I try to make a living with my creative skills, which are largely based around traditional media. Like games that heavily feature strategy, though tend to be put off by actual so-called strategy games. I have anxiety problems and find it difficult to start a conversation or join an existing one.

Wait: Selling paintings during a recession, when you're not - and intend never to be - part of the Charles Saatchi crowd? Yep, that's a great career choice. (Aside: it isn't.)

I generally settle for masculine pronouns unless I'm en femme (or have been all day and only no longer presenting as such because a t-shirt and no makeup is the most convenient pre-sleep attire). I do wish there were some established gender neutral personal pronouns in English, but we're pretty much stuck with the language available :/
What I’m doing with my life
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Sculpting master models for a firm over in the US. Reading about history (specifically, the Second Punic War). Doing a little IT course to give me a piece of paper telling people I know how to use Microsoft Word. Investigating the feasibility of replacing all my makeup with that new stuff Lush have started doing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Painting. Sculpting. Drawing. Ranting. Cooking. Telling Tories why they're wrong about everything. Street Fighter 2.

You can see my art at http://lindsay40k.deviantart.com/gallery/
The first things people usually notice about me
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My arse, apparently. I work out with weights and get a lot of comments.

When I'm en femme, my legs seem to get a fair bit of attention. It seems a lot of people in the male-to-female bubble make themselves skinny to feminise their appearance; I, on the other hand, have calves to speak of. Going a bit Jodie Marsh with it, I suppose. (As an aside - genuinely appalled at how much body shaming and misogyny is directed at her since she started eating heartily, quit smoking and exercised regular.)

En homme... well, presently, the beard's going a bit Zangief, if I'm honest. I'm supposed to be getting a Sabretooth photoshoot in the can soon, and then the gender line's going to get blurred again.

I'm a fairly introverted person, so if there's anything about my personality that contributes to first impressions it's being a bit quiet and awkward.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Discworld, The Invisibles, Preacher, history stuff, The Guyver, Ranma 1/2, Akira, Transformers, Marxist classics. I also read a fair bit of anti-Marxist works, because I don't like simply reaffirming the conclusions I've drawn to date; I actively seek out points of view that conflict with my own. (So far, every time I've read a renowned anarchist, neoclassical or left liberal treatise my conclusion has boiled down to 'well, that's clearly bollocks.') I keep bugging my local library to fill the gaps in their collection of Y: The Last Man; what I've read of it was pretty good stuff. And I love Viz, an' all; trying to get submissions published, and I'm Facebook friends with him who draws the Drunken Bakers. That's right, look impressed.

Telly: I actually lived with no TV for a year and didn't miss it one bit. But I did have DVDs and internet, so that doesn't count as no telly, not really. Either way: Archer, Yes Minister, Police Squad, Daria, PhoneShop, TMWRNJ, Blackadder, Beavis & Butt-head, King of the Hill, Star Stories, Brass Eye, Monk, Walking Dead, blah blah etc. Graham Linehan always seems to produce the goods. Also, The Goon Show. It's not telly; it's better. It's like a podcast you could only stream at a certain time.

Films: Aliens, A Town Called Panic, Natural Born Killers, Twelve Angry Men, Big Lebowski, Die Hard, Idiocracy, Some Like it Hot, Wall Street, Falling Down, Laputa, Terminator 2, The Sting, All Monty Python...

Music: Mostly harder stuff - Pantera, Public Enemy, Dead Kennedys, Crystal Castles, NIN, Otep, Ramones, Placebo, KMFDM, Black Sabbath. Aside from headbanging stuff: Presidents of the United States of America, Beastie Boys, Buddy Holly, George Formby, Tchaikovsky, Johnny Cash, Willie Nelson, Rolling Stones. And I listen to game soundtracks; not modern stuff with all licensed acts, but bleepy old school Nintendo, Capcom and Enix stuff.

Food: Love Thai. And I get a lot of love for my vegan cuisine. Haven't tried my ocean pie? Well, then.

Standup: Yeah, I'm breaking your mould, OkCupid. Whatchagonnado? Richard Herring, Stewart Lee, Richard Pryor, Harry Hill before he got hooked by ITV and the advertising industry, Eddie Izzard, Bill Hicks, Bill Bailey, Tim Minchin, Dylan Moran, Billy Connolly, Rich Hall, Dave Allen.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My creativity, books, my winkie, my bike, my iPhone, and mementos of departed friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mostly, creative projects. I'm working on this sculpting commission, and besides that I've got various painting projects on and off - I'm a bit of a butterfly and prefer to have several things on the go and flitter to and fro rather than try to create to a strict agenda. I'm also working on game maps for Civilization IV that focus on aesthetics and instil in the player a sense of wonder and exploration. Oh, and figuring how to work Hannibal Barca's genius generalship into games of Warhammer.

Aside from that, I pay attention to world events. Outspoken commentary on the Olympics, the far right, animal ethics and civil liberties have gotten me followed by hundreds of strangers, and unfollowed by dozens of friends. I count both of those as indications of success.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing games, doing something artsy, or stalking your Facebook.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've never seen Fight Club.
You should message me if
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You're into guys who like to get dolled up now and again.

You've little interest in prolonged exchanges of message on the internet, and are here to actually meet people and see if we have chemistry in person or get on well and become mates.