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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:46pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Space camp
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a fun, genuinely happy guy who loves to live and laugh and have as many adventures as possible! I love traveling (just went to Barcelona last October and fell in love with it), the great outdoors, and being a huge pop culture aficionado. I am renowned for my hugs, I am nearly always smiling and I aim to make those around me smile too! It's a good date if both of our cheeks are sore by the end of it (from smiling/laughing).
What I’m doing with my life
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I recently graduated from the Institute of Culinary Education in Manhattan, and have just completed my externship at The Shakespeare Pub. I am the founder of Nerd-Herder Productions (nerd-centric party planning; have done Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Star Wars, Marvel), Big Band Theory Dance Company (where I organize outdoor social swing dances, in addition to competitions and myriad other dance events) and DNA Interactive Theater Company (we just had our first murder mystery production in March). In addition, I DJ at a speakeasy called The Back Room for the jazz band Svetalana and the Delancey Five during their band breaks every Monday night. My 5 year plan is to open a restaurant in NYC in the style of the Savoy Ballroom circa 1946.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Swing dancing, cooking, catering, intellectual conversations, event planning/organizing, making friends, being true to myself, making people feel at ease, making people smile, being inclusive, being creative, being a birthday engineer, kissing, massages.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Doug Hugs! I'm a die-hard hugger. I firmly believe in the healing power of hugs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Wheel of Time series by Robert Jordan, Game of Thrones series by George R. R. Martin, The Hunger Games Trilogy by Suzanne Collins, Generation Atheist by Dan Riley, A Wrinkle in Time by Madeline L'Engle, The Belgariad and The Mallorean series' by David Eddings, all the Drizzt Do'Urden books by R.A. Salvatore, A Brief History of Time by Stephen Hawking, The Ender Quintet by Orson Scott Card, the collected works of H.P. Lovecraft (working on At The Mountains of Madness right now).

Movies: Her, The Mothman Prophecies, Shawshank Redmption, Marvel movies, The Adjustment Bureau, all the Batman movies except the Joel Schumacher disasterpieces, The Matrix, Ted, The Departed, Good Will Hunting. Star Wars (original trilogy and most of ep 3, duh!), The Lord of the Rings Trilogy. What Dreams May Come, Serenity, The Last Samurai, The Secret Life of Walter Mitty, Julie and Julia, When Harry Met Sally. Super Troopers, The Cabin In The Woods, Lost In Translation, The Prestige, The Illusionist, Minority Report, Amelie... the list goes on.

T.V. Shows: Star Trek: The Next Generation, Firefly, The X-Files, House, Big Bang Theory, Game of Thrones, Falling Skies, Fringe, Stargate SG-1, Supernatural, Marvel's Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., The Walking Dead, Almost Human, Hell's Kitchen, Kitchen Nightmares, Iron Chef America, Chopped, StarTrek: Deep Space 9, StarTrek: Enterprise, Penny Dreadful.

Music: Literally everything except country and opera. Especially Big Band, metal and '90s alternative. Examples: Metallica, Korn, Slipknot, Avenged Sevenfold, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy, Indigo Swing, Count Basie, Diana Krall, Benny Goodman, Rob Zombie, Jewel, Gin Blossoms, Soundgarden, Stone Temple Pilots, Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong. I've also developed a gigantic crush on this girl's singing:

Food: Cheese and chocolate and everything in between. One of my favorite things to make is Beef Wellington. I'm also a sucker for game meat, like rabbit or venison. I'm allergic to mushrooms and dislike food with tentacles. I can't do spicy food due to stomach issues. I prefer hard cider over beer and mead over white wine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dancing shoes
An unlimited metrocard
Teh interwebz
(I hate to admit it, but) My smart phone
Friends and loved ones
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things to cook, new dance routines, life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with my friends, dancing, watching T.V. It all depends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The smell of cooking shallots in butter makes me happy!
You should message me if
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You are a good, solid, stable, happy, fun-to-be-around, intelligent woman with a sense of humor and a positive outlook on life.