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30 M New York, NY

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm a writer and a Texan living in New York. Yes, I have an accent.

Recently, I just quit a soul-crushing job to start a film distribution business with a couple of friends. So, I guess you could say I'm now officially an entrepreneur. (Also, I knew how to spell that word on the first try.)

I've not read every book that is on my bookshelf, but I'm interested in each of them nonetheless.

I own a couple of typewriters and a fountain pen. I don't use any of them as much as I probably should.

I have a terrible fear of vomiting.
What I’m doing with my life
Getting up the motivation to write; working to make a career in the film industry; trying to improve myself where I can, or embrace my own faults where I can't. All of this is getting easier.

I'm learning to cook. It's fun, but I'm starting off slow, mostly because I don't have someone to cook with me / to cook for.
I’m really good at
Conversation; writing; advice; forgiveness; humor; making
omelettes (though I might be out of practice).
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair; my honesty; the fact that I look like Eric Stoltz. Or Philip Seymour Hoffmann.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(Writers/Books) Charles Bukowski; Hunter Thompson; Kurt Vonnegut; Cormac McCarthy; Edward Albee; Bret Easton Ellis; Jim Thompson; Malcolm Gladwell; Anton Chekhov; Richard Dawkins; Oliver Sacks; David Markson; Harold Pinter; David Sedaris; The True Believer by Eric Hoffer; The Naked and the Dead by Norman Mailer; Max Barry; etc.

Current reading Easy Riders, Raging Bulls

(Music) Tom Waits; Modest Mouse; Cage the Elephant; The Beatles; The Brian Jonestown Massacre; Johnny Cash; Jim Croce; Son House; Skip James; The Doors; Daniel Johnston; Cake; Al Green; Elvis Presley; Creedence Clearwater Revival; Bob Dylan; The Eagles; Motown; Nirvana; Marilyn Manson; R. L. Burnside; Red Hot Chili Peppers; The Rolling Stones; Robert Johnson; Vampire Weekend; Andrew Bird; The Who; Joe Cocker; Hank Williams; Queen; Broadway musicals; etc.

Movies (an abbreviated list): Primer, Werner Herzog, Mumblecore, Lena Dunham, Quentin Tarantino, Indies

And honestly, I'm quite taken with Scott Pilgrim vs. The World.

(Food) Things that are fried.
The six things I could never do without
The basic human needs: food, air, shelter, water, etc.
My cats.
Intellectual curiosity and stimulation.
Film / Movies.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My life: past, present and future; art; the world; writerly things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Staying at home more often than going out. Or trying to, anyway.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I'm nervous on our date I assure you I will admit everything that I should never admit on a date.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You wanna be my Ramona Flowers (or maybe my Marla Singer),

You find me cute; interesting; or if you just wanna chat... Or if you like my hair. I will let you touch it, you don't even have to ask