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52 San Antonio, TX Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 28
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Tired of the lies and mind games - so am I.

I'm old enough to know that a quiet walk and stargazing can be just as powerful as a night of passionate intimacy - you?
My movie and music range are wide... Beatles, Pink Floyd, Peter Gabriel, Enigma through Harry Chapin and Jim Croce to Jean Michael Jarre and Tangerine Dream to Sci-Fi and romantic comedy.

Being creative is my motivation, my reason for living (?) - no mind games in creativity. I am a 30+ year published and exhibited artist - I even had a one man show at a museum! I have been in education for over 24+ years: Kinder through University - perhaps, that explains a lot about me... hmm? Writing is the closest I have ever come to the beauty of creation... next to my art work. Yes, I have written a lot of poems, sorry if some ladies prefer a caveman-type... I'm pretty sure I am not a caveman... but, cave exploring can be awesome! I am being as upfront as this forum allows... You'll get no mind games here. Get to know me or help me feel comfortable and I will forward you my website which has samples of my writing and art works.

Ladies... dearest sweet ladies... I remain honest, serious, committed and confused... lots of contacts (thank you for that) but, where's the honesty? Pictures that are several years old - even a few that look like teen photos with ages stated as 40+!?!
Oh well, more honesty: I am as upfront as the ladies on here claim that they want a man to be - can the ladies do the same? It is not my thing to ever mis-direct about the way I look (see my recent pic). I am stocky and just a few pounds over (for those that are curious, it's just in the belly - no where else... and, yes, I can see my toes!) and yet, women are posting that they are thin and are not, athletic or average... and obviously on the heavy side (except for the few that describe that they feel that they do have an average body type and why [thank you for being honest!]) and some that claim to be a "few pounds over" and are not...

I am looking for a woman who is natural in looks (silicone... unless for medical reasons, can be a turn off... why fall into that social belief that a woman has to be "bigger" up there to be noticed?), being comfortable with herself (no caked on make-up or even no make-up unless it was needed for an event, etc.), is between thin through average and who truly believes she can be herself. I seek a women who can be herself and not behave how they think a guy wants them to behave.

I am interested in YOU... not some false version of you!

I do not have a care for your skin color and your race (I have a fondness for many other cultures). I care for the smile in your eyes, your laughter, a shoulder to share with... and a hand to wipe my tears, too.

I am looking for a true, honest and potentially long term relationship... that may lead to... well, that's for the greater wisdom to decide.

I've said it before and I'll say it again: if a relationship begins in dishonesty - where will it go?

Thanks for letting me air this out... hope to hear from you if you believe I've said what you believe in, too!

(UPDATE): Duh, haven't mentioned that I'm into laughing until one... Ummm, has to go "tinkle"... and I do voice impressions, Christopher Walken being among them - don't ask to go out to pretend I'm Chris... "I'm just sayin'!"

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping others find what they need about themselves... alas, it is a gift that I cannot use on myself (I have tried).
Creating visual artworks, photography and writing...!
Making a woman smile...
Making a woman realise that someone does listen...
Making a woman feel like she is as close to the center of the universe as one can be!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My creative eye... my sense of humor... and that I relish an awesome conversation!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 - Music (a gift from the Gods!),
2 - Skin (to touch and be touched),
3 - Eyes (to behold the beauty of what surrounds me and who is with me)
4 - Heart (to feel the joys of love... and the pains of love)
5 - Prayer (with faith, there is always hope...)
6 - YOU (if you are THE one who blesses my life... I will commit my life to bless yours)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Creativity... what can I do next.
What I would be doing if was with the woman who wants, appreciates and finds value in who I am...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Waiting for a someone to join me on a fun, silly or serious get together... if not, going out for a simple meal, movies or whatever catches my single fancy... alone, of course...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have NO problem crying during an emotional movie scene... heavy conversation... or seeing a couple expressing love to each other and/or their children.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You miss sensitivity, a silly smile and mind-blowing conversations,
You need to feel important, appreciated and respected,
You need a deep friend... who could become your lover... your future...