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52 Lagrangeville, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40-55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 28
Lesbian, Sapiosexual
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Christianity and laughing about it
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Qualities I don't want:

No "cheaters" or Open Relationships.
Your best friend is you're Ex...
Your married or you're in any kind of relationship.
Your never happy with just one person.. You're always looking--
No drugs.
No Alcoholics.
No Drama.

On a happy note: I looking for positive energy & someone kind.
I hike, kayak, 4 wheel, cross country skiing, snow shoeing, ski, snowmobiling, tennis and play golf.. I'm new at playing golf (4 years) still learning---but-enjoy playing and being outside... I go to the gym every other day... I just completed my first I/2 marathon.. I walked fast about 14 min a mile..

I like out-door activities in the summer and the local gym in the winter. I have a simple life. My home is 225 year old barn, converted to a house in 1942. I have since modernized it. I like-kayaking, sailing, painting, fishing and photography. I love-- all the culture & outdoor activities Dutchess County has to offer..

I spent a lot weekends working on different home improvement projects. The house is my big art canvas..

I have a dog--- Rhodesian Ridge-back (she is a rescue). We spend a lot of time catching Frisbee's, playing soccer and hiking.....

My favorite place is Cape Cod. No matter--how crowded the roads, the beaches are always peaceful. My children are grown and I'm learning to fill the weekends with new adventures...

I'm looking for someone who-- wants to spend weekends having dinners, talking, coffee, movies, plays, concerts, sporting events, hikes and walks on the beach. I want a relationship that brings fortitude to swap our life stories. I want a connection with someone.

People are like great novels. Sometimes --we share the deepest chapters of our personal pages and even though we move on---we have a piece of them for eternity..
Every person--we bring into our life--creates internal changes, and the direction of our journey (no-matter how brief).

Do you stop and take in-- all the ocean has to offer? Will you bend down to pick up shells? Can you sit next to me (and put your feet in the sand?). Can we sleep late on rainy weekends?

You "must" be a great communicator, be articulate and like deep conversations....If you "can't" talk on the phone--I'm not for you...
Texting, e-mails, muted phones, social media, sleeping with multiple people--I'm just not into it... I laugh, I play--I work --I laugh some-more....Witty humor is like foreplay...

I think--smart people are very sexy..

My kids are grown.. If you have children---I welcome them..
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I changed careers from Corporate Executive after 25 years (consultant) to Nursing in (Jan 2015). Currently I do Social Work & Counseling for the State. I wanted to work close to home and enjoy the evening doing fun things & hope to meet someone to share the Hudson-Valley with.... I have Multiple degree's and currently I'm in school completing IT Security. After that-I will finish my masters degree.

Last night-- (Oct---2015) I hiked in the rain with 40 local hikers. It was just what the doctor ordered.. I'm involved with a local paddle club and kayaked more this fall (2015)-- than I did all summer.. I went to Lake Placid a few times this summer with friends and again this fall with an experienced local hiking club which was amazing... I'm currently--heading to Cuba on an educational grant.. I'm mapping out a trip to Germany & Maybe the Italian country-side for two weeks in the spring..

As for relationships---I only want to be in a monogamous relationship.. I'm divorced 23 years and moved on a long time ago..
I dated mostly for 20 years because my job kept me traveling...

I have cable but--it's not connected nothing really interesting on TV.
I do Love Breaking Bad & have one season left to watch. I also watched all of the Nurse Jackie episodes on DVD. I have always worked a second job. I use the money to travel and now to help pay down student loans.

My adult children--handle their own money and they live on the West Coast. I try to visit--a couple times a year and do a family vacation..

I like attending local car shows, museums, antique stores, art exhibits, symphonies, jazz restaurants, events and concerts. But--love the opera & plays. I like to attend classes--I love to learn new things and spend a lot of time volunteering in the community.
I think--this year--I will focus on Meal on Wheels.. I just went to a Jazz
bar in CT the end of Sept 2015 what a wonderful little club. Nice to just sit and listen to music--live not blasting..

When I'm home--family board games, being with friends, church events, concerts and good movies. I enjoy cooking home made meals (I like healthy food)...I cooked home made sauce from the garden 5 times this summer. The tomatoes were just amazing this year.. Why-- eat instant potatoes from the box when "I can cook my own". I know this might sound boring--but--I am drama free. I would like you --to be the same... Drama free--no crazy ex--girl friends or friends.

Please say hello--only if you want a relationship with "one" person... Please--no addicts or alcoholics -- it just doesn't fit in my life style... Long term 12 step recovery is OK.. Please --longer than 5 years...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being me... I love to research the truth. I like doing just about anything, reading, thinking, hiking, walking, biking, gardening, volunteering, community events... I am a great problem solver and love to save money and make money for people (I love a good business deal).

I'm really good at reading people... Not much get's by me....

I don't fall in love easy, however--friends are forever and I love people "deeply" and never turn my back on anyone.....
I don't drink (un-less)--its a good wine with a perfect meal. Not into drugs, never was... I'm here-- like everyone else...
Looking for that person --(to share moments together)-- bad or good...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile...Green eyes, good skin...healthy look.. I rarely wear make-up--so if your looking for a trophy wife...I'm not her..
I like being outside and like--getting
I am very articulate and love conversations...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books---50 Shades of Gray, Life Story of Lucy O' Ball, The Wanderers, The Kiss. Nixon. Any-thing Shakespeare.. Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison. On the Road by Jack Kerouac.The Iliad by Homer. Native Son by Richard Wright. . To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee. The Divine Comedy by Dante Alighieri. Lord of the Flies by William Golding.The Sun Also Rises by Ernest Hemingway. Too many to name--I love to read..

Movies---Wizard of Oz, Look Who's Talking, Back To The Future. Silver Lining, Argo, Lincoln, Lord of The Rings, The Notebook. Old black & white movies...The Color Purple.

Music--Led Zeppelin to Country--my favorite-classical and jazz...
I love good food---from Salmon to Cheese Burgers...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My grown children, friends, dog, computers, car, the change of seasons.....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why do people cheat?
How to improve my golf swing... Trying new eye-glasses!
The future and my children's future...
I think about retiring in the cape, but-- I love San Francisco or maybe Vermont..
I do think about relationships--how do you find the right person?

I think about-the earth spinning so fast--why aren't we dizzy?

Is--- every snow flake, really different?
Why--The only time-- I text at work--(the CEO walks in my office)?
How long-- does a spider live? I ask, this-- because---I have one in my living-room for a long time... But--good news--finally sucked her up with the Dirt Devil.... he he....
Has the internet --given us so many people to choose from and we never pick anyone? We can't even answer back a message after someone writes a simple note.. Could be missing out on a great friend.. Do we all have too many?
Why do people want to be invisible.. Texting and e-mails--have replaced --human interaction... Why?
I have met people on here.. One person even broke my heart in millions of little pieces.. So-- please-- no cheaters--no players..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends or reading a book.. Or maybe home cooking..
Maybe--painting or drawing? Just enjoying a sun-set...
Summer nights-- walking the rail trail---sunset kayaking....
Winter- movie --dinner..
A lot of local events..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like who I am....and I know what I need!
I don't sleep with people on the first date...I don't sleep around..
I share moments with a select few..
If -being cultured is watching T V----I'm not for you!
Best gift-- ever given to me---(my two children)..
Hardest job -I ever had---(being a single parent).
I get annoyed with people, who lack--social & communication skills--Or-don't have simple manors--(you know-- the ones you learned in Kindergarten)...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you like what you read...we can talk in private..
If- you are playful & like to be busy. Like to be with friends- or spend rainy days at home reading books- painting- or cooking. Please send me an email.. Don't answer--if--you are only looking for sex.

If--you haven't--- worked---on you----You won't be with me!
E-mails and texts (is time wasted). So-use the phone. Don't waste my time...
You want to get to know me.....You will have to call or go to dinner..