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lirat05261963

51 F Lagrangeville, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:36pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm starting to think---dating at 50---is more work--than a full time job....

I would like you to be ---"playful & happy". One who likes "communication". If--you have mood swings, plus a "past" your not proud of---and have problems getting along with people--Stop reading-- move on now---

You must be legally divorced or never married no-girl-friends...Looking for someone my age (45 to 55)..
No--drugs--that means pot smokers, drinkers and former addicts.....I'm just not into the drama...

I hike, kayak, 4 wheel, cross country skiing, snow shoeing, snowmobiling, tennis and play golf.. I'm new at playing golf, but-enjoy playing and being outside... I go to the gym every other day...

Born in the Bronx and yes--"hung-out on the stoop"... I like going to LI-----Grew up (South of Merrick Rd)--lived on the water (and-yes- I can drive a boat). I had a fabulous childhood & still have the same friends....I Lived in CT--went to college there (best years of my life).....Married & Raised--my children in Woodbury and back to NY after my divorce..

I like out-door activities in the summer and the local gym in the winter. I have a simple life. My home is 225 year old barn, converted to a house in 1942. I have since modernized it. I like-kayaking, sailing, painting, fishing and photography. I love-- all the culture & outdoor activities Dutchess County has to offer..

I spend a lot weekends working on different home improvement projects. The house is my big art canvas..

I have a dog--- Rhodesian Ridgeback(she is a rescue). We spend a lot of time catching Frisbee's, playing soccer and hiking.....

My favorite place is Cape Cod. No matter--how crowded the roads, the beaches are always peaceful. My children are grown and I'm learning to fill the weekends with new adventures...

I'm looking for someone who-- wants to spend weekends having dinners, talking, coffee, movies, plays, concerts, sporting events, hikes and walks on the beach. I want a relationship that brings fortitude to swap our life stories. I want a connection with someone.

People are like great novels. Sometimes --we share the deepest chapters of our personal pages and even though we move on---we have a piece of them for eternity..
Every person--we bring into our life--creates internal changes, and the direction of our journey (no-matter how brief).

Question?
Do you stop and take in-- all the ocean has to offer? Will you bend down to pick up shells? Can you sit next to me (and put your feet in the sand?). Can we sleep late on rainy weekends?

You "must" be a great communicator, be articulate and like deep conversations....If you "can't" talk on the phone--I'm not for you...
Texting, e-mails, muted phones, social media, sleeping with multiple people--I'm just not into it... I laugh, I play--I work --I laugh some-more....Witty humor is like foreplay...

My kids are grown.. If you have children---I welcome them..
What I’m doing with my life
I want to be in a relationship... I'm divorced and moved on....
Looking to change careers... I have adult children--who are learning to handle their own finances..
Not so easy... lol

I like attending local car shows, museums, antique stores, art exhibits, symphonies, jazz restaurants, events and concerts. But--love the opera & plays.

I find--- intelligent people-- to be very sexy... Always have....

I love family board games, being with friends, church events, concerts and good movies. I enjoy cooking home made meals (I like healthy food).... Why eat instant potatoes from the box when "I can cook my own". I know this might sound boring--but--I am drama free. I would like you --to be the same...
I’m really good at
Being me... I like doing just about anything, reading, thinking, hiking, walking, biking, gardening, volunteering, community events... I am a great problem solver and love to save money and make money for people (I love a good business deal).

I'm really good at reading people... Not much get's by me....

I don't fall in love easy, however--friends are forever and I love people "deeply" and never turn my back on anyone.....
I don't drink (un-less)--its a good wine with a perfect meal. Not into drugs, never was... I'm here-- like everyone else...
Looking for that person --(to share moments together)-- bad or good...
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile...Green eyes, good skin...healthy look.. I rarely wear make-up--so if your looking for a trophy wife...I'm not her..
I like being outside and like--getting dirty....lol
I am very articulate and love conversations...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books---50 Shades of Gray, Life Story of Lucy O' Ball, The Wanderers, The Kiss. Nixon. Any-thing Shakespeare.. Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison. On the Road by Jack Kerouac.The Iliad by Homer. Native Son by Richard Wright. . To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee. The Divine Comedy by Dante Alighieri. Lord of the Flies by William Golding.The Sun Also Rises by Ernest Hemingway. Too many to name--I love to read..

Movies---Wizard of Oz, Look Who's Talking, Back To The Future. Silver Lining, Argo, Lincoln, Lord of The Rings, The Notebook. Old black & white movies...The Color Purple.

Music--Led Zeppelin to Country--my favorite-classical and jazz...
I love good food---from Salmon to Cheese Burgers...
The six things I could never do without
My kids, family, friends, dog, car, and church..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future and my children's future...
I think about retiring in the cape, but-- I love San Francisco or maybe Vermont..

I think about-the earth spinning so fast--why aren't we dizzy?
Is--- every snow flake, really different?
Why--The only time-- I text at work--(the CEO walks in my office)?
How long-- does a spider live? I ask, this-- because---I have one in my living-room for 4 years...
Has the internet --given us so many people to choose from and we never pick anyone?
Why do people want to be invisible.. Texting and e-mails--have replaced --human interaction... Why?
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends or reading a book.. Or maybe home cooking..
Maybe--painting or drawing?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like who I am....and I know what I need!
I don't sleep with people on the first date...I don't sleep around..
I share moments with a select few..
If -being cultured is watching T V----I'm not for you!
Best gift-- ever given to me---(my two children)..
Hardest job -I ever had---(being a single parent).
I get annoyed with people, who lack--social & communication skills--Or-don't have simple manors--(you know-- the ones you learned in Kindergarten)...
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
If you like what you read...we can talk in private..
Again--please no former addicts, drinkers, moody people or people with baggage... Don't answer--if--you are looking for sex.

If--you haven't--- worked---on you----You won't be with me! E-mails and texts (is time wasted). So-use the phone. Don't waste my time...
You want to get to know me.....You will have to call or go to dinner..