Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Back on the market.. Looking to be in a relationship.. No cheaters
or people who like open relationships. I would like you to be
---"playful & happy". One who likes "communication". If--you
have mood swings, plus a "past" your not proud of---and have
problems getting along with people--Stop reading-- move on now---
if you have an ex--now best friend, please---skip my page...,
You must be legally divorced or never married no-girl-friends.
Single-- Looking for someone my age (45 to 55)..
No--drugs--that means pot smokers, drinkers and former
addicts.....I'm just not into the drama...
I hike, kayak, 4 wheel, cross country skiing, snow shoeing,
snowmobiling, tennis and play golf.. I'm new at playing golf,
but-enjoy playing and being outside... I go to the gym every other
I like out-door activities in the summer and the local gym in the
winter. I have a simple life. My home is 225 year old barn,
converted to a house in 1942. I have since modernized it. I
like-kayaking, sailing, painting, fishing and photography. I love--
all the culture & outdoor activities Dutchess County has to
I spend a lot weekends working on different home improvement
projects. The house is my big art canvas..
I have a dog--- Rhodesian Ridgeback(she is a rescue). We spend a
lot of time catching Frisbee's, playing soccer and
My favorite place is Cape Cod. No matter--how crowded the roads,
the beaches are always peaceful. My children are grown and I'm
learning to fill the weekends with new adventures...
I'm looking for someone who-- wants to spend weekends having
dinners, talking, coffee, movies, plays, concerts, sporting events,
hikes and walks on the beach. I want a relationship that brings
fortitude to swap our life stories. I want a connection with
People are like great novels. Sometimes --we share the deepest
chapters of our personal pages and even though we move on---we have
a piece of them for eternity..
Every person--we bring into our life--creates internal changes, and
the direction of our journey (no-matter how brief).
Do you stop and take in-- all the ocean has to offer? Will you bend
down to pick up shells? Can you sit next to me (and put your feet
in the sand?). Can we sleep late on rainy weekends?
You "must" be a great communicator, be articulate and like deep
conversations....If you "can't" talk on the phone--I'm not for
Texting, e-mails, muted phones, social media, sleeping with
multiple people--I'm just not into it... I laugh, I play--I work
--I laugh some-more....Witty humor is like foreplay...
My kids are grown.. If you have children---I welcome them..
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Im Changing careers and working hard to find something I love.. I
looking to work close to home and enjoy the evening doing fun
things.. Last night-- I caught a local field hockey game at the
college and kayaked at Wappingers Creek with a paddling
I only want to be in a monogamous relationship.. I'm divorced and
I have adult children--who are learning to handle their own
Not so easy... lol
I like attending local car shows, museums, antique stores, art
exhibits, symphonies, jazz restaurants, events and concerts.
But--love the opera & plays. I like to attend classes--I love
to learn new things...
I find--- intelligent people-- to be very sexy... Always
I love family board games, being with friends, church events,
concerts and good movies. I enjoy cooking home made meals (I like
healthy food).... Why eat instant potatoes from the box when "I can
cook my own". I know this might sound boring--but--I am drama free.
I would like you --to be the same... Drama free--no crazy ex--girl
friends or friends. You want to be in a relationship with one
person... Normal people --say hello--send a message.. Please--no
former addicts or alcoholics -- it just doesn't fit in my life
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being me... I like doing just about anything, reading, thinking,
hiking, walking, biking, gardening, volunteering, community
events... I am a great problem solver and love to save money and
make money for people (I love a good business deal).
I'm really good at reading people... Not much get's by me....
I don't fall in love easy, however--friends are forever and I love
people "deeply" and never turn my back on anyone.....
I don't drink (un-less)--its a good wine with a perfect meal. Not
into drugs, never was... I'm here-- like everyone else...
Looking for that person --(to share moments together)-- bad or
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile...Green eyes, good skin...healthy look.. I rarely wear
make-up--so if your looking for a trophy wife...I'm not her..
I like being outside and like--getting dirty....lol
I am very articulate and love conversations...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books---50 Shades of Gray, Life Story of Lucy O' Ball, The
Wanderers, The Kiss. Nixon. Any-thing Shakespeare.. Invisible Man
by Ralph Ellison. On the Road by Jack Kerouac.The Iliad by Homer.
Native Son by Richard Wright. . To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper
Lee. The Divine Comedy by Dante Alighieri. Lord of the Flies by
William Golding.The Sun Also Rises by Ernest Hemingway. Too many to
name--I love to read..
Movies---Wizard of Oz, Look Who's Talking, Back To The Future.
Silver Lining, Argo, Lincoln, Lord of The Rings, The Notebook. Old
black & white movies...The Color Purple.
Music--Led Zeppelin to Country--my favorite-classical and
I love good food---from Salmon to Cheese Burgers...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My grown children, friends, dogs, computers, car, the change of
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve my golf swing...
The future and my children's future...
I think about retiring in the cape, but-- I love San Francisco or
I think about-the earth spinning so fast--why aren't we
Is--- every snow flake, really different?
Why--The only time-- I text at work--(the CEO walks in my
How long-- does a spider live? I ask, this-- because---I have one
in my living-room for 4 years...
Has the internet --given us so many people to choose from and we
never pick anyone?
Why do people want to be invisible.. Texting and e-mails--have
replaced --human interaction... Why?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends or reading a book.. Or maybe home cooking..
Maybe--painting or drawing? Just enjoying a sun-set...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like who I am....and I know what I need!
I don't sleep with people on the first date...I don't sleep
I share moments with a select few..
If -being cultured is watching T V----I'm not for you!
Best gift-- ever given to me---(my two children)..
Hardest job -I ever had---(being a single parent).
I get annoyed with people, who lack--social & communication
skills--Or-don't have simple manors--(you know-- the ones you
learned in Kindergarten)...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you like what you read...we can talk in private..
Again--please no former addicts, drinkers, moody people or people
with baggage... Don't answer--if--you are looking for sex.
If--you haven't--- worked---on you----You won't be with me! E-mails
and texts (is time wasted). So-use the phone. Don't waste my
You want to get to know me.....You will have to call or go to
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