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42 • Valley Cottage, NY • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 5
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- Graduated from university
- Likes dogs and has cats
You know that kinda geeky girl from high school, who sat in the back and was always kinda quiet, but you secretly thought was kinda hot? Ever wonder what happened to that girl, all grown up?
Yeah, that's me.
I've grown into my skin a lot since then, and I know who I am and make no apologies for it. Less quiet. Still bookish. Definitely hotter. Still have a little bit of the absent-minded-professor thing going on. I'm not very good with mundane things like, say, mail. Or, apparently, dating. (Oops. I knew there was something I was forgetting to do...)
Meanwhile, I do web analytics and advertising tech. I'm pretty good at it, and I generally enjoy it. So, it's working out until I figure out how I'm going to go about saving the world. (Or just taking it over. Haven't decided which yet.)
Most recent reads, in reverse order:
(Updated: Kate Daniels novels. Still working on The Signal and the Noise. A crappy zombie book I didn't like much. Wool. )
The Name of the Wind. Various Sookie Stackhouse novels. Dune. Gunmetal Magic. The Power Of Habit. Skinny Rules. Dragon Tattoo series. Hunger Games series. Game of Thrones series. Honestly, GoT took so long to read I've forgotten what I read before that.
I really don't watch much TV. Daily Show, Chopped, the occasional home improvement show. Every now and then there's a good SciFi show that catches my attention. BSG, Lost, Game of Thrones. Firefly, of course. I'll watch anything Joss Whedon is involved in. Sitcoms bore me. I don't see the point in crime dramas. I stopped watching network tv a long time ago.
Recently watched through Doctor Who from the beginning and am now a complete addict. This happens.
Musical taste varies wildly. I like almost everything. I do have this weird habit of actually listening to the lyrics, which sometimes makes me nuts because they're so dumb, or make no sense.
You have made SOME effort to fill in your profile, including an actual picture (of you). If I have to, you have to. ;-)
You agree that the Tenth Doctor is the one true Doctor. Sorry Eleven fans, this is a deal breaker. ;-)
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