Lets be honest here a lil bit as to what i am looking for. I could say outer appearance is nothing but thats a lie. It does matter somewhat what a guy looks like. Im not completely shallow and thats not all i care about. Personality and sense of humor rate a lot higher for me. What catches my eye tho is a great smile. Skinny to fit guys. Not a tonnn of muscle like a bodybuilder but also not too much i cant wrap my arms around. Dorky/geeky/nerdy looking guys are def a head turner. Slightly taller than me or same height.
Looking for someone patient. Someone just as low key as i am. He may not know what he wants to do with his life either. I worry if hes motivated too much i might bring him down. Im content with where im at for the moment. Working on figuring out how to maybe profit from my artistic hobbies. Not so much into sports and athletics. Altho wouldnt mind hiking or camping. Preferably someone with no baggage. Previous marriage and/or kids. Hoping to someday get married and have a family of my own and it seems with guys who have gone thru it already arent as likely to go thru it again.
A lover. A fighter. A best friend. A companion. Someone who trusts easily. And is faithful. I tend to be a flirt but im not a cheater. Never cheated or been cheated on. Hoping to find someone who loves being around me whenever but will give me space when needed. Had too many exes that were super clingy constantly. Got old fast. Someone who has buddies they can hang out with. Or both of us can hang out with. A family man. My friends and my family mean a lot to me. Someone who can get along with my siblings and parents. And doesnt have a psycho family of their own. The guy who is not afraid to brag as if im the best thing that could ever happen to him. Altho i will quickly deny it and act as if youre full of shit. A guy who at least likes cats. I have 2. If he has cats thats even cuter. He must be able to accept gifts. Whenever. For whatever reason i see fit. Im highly sentimental and will buy that corny little trinket i saw at the thrift store if it made me think of you. Surprises from your end is welcome as well.
i am NOT looking for:
*considerably older men (my realtionship with my father is fine-no daddy issues here.)
*considerably younger boys (anybody more worried about getting some or where the latest party is at. esp if your age ends in -teen.)
*sugar daddies (i dont care about being spoiled with material posessions)
*open relationships (im a one man, woman. i dont share.)
*anyone still stuck on a past relationship (seriously get yourself together before getting my hopes up.)