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lisafstar

41 / F / straight / Single

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am a whole lot of fun, down to earth, and sincere.

My Self-Summary

For a long time I have opted for the 'wrong guy' and I find myself wondering if there isn't something more. A little deeper than aesthetics, a lot deeper than just a bar goer, someone who is more than just the average good looking, cocky rock 'n' rolla. Someone who sees their future but is open to the fantastic possibilities life can toss at you sometimes. Someone who isn't tied down to one city, someone who shares the same zest and love of family, friends, music, travel, zany adventures and quiet times I do. Yes I have tattoos, no you don't have to and I don't want a relationship based solely on my physical appearance or yours. I want the real deal complete with mutual respect, kindness, adoration and crazy. Someone who will break into song when the mood strikes....someone whose spirit is already lifted and who has an open heart not someone looking for someone to fix them and bring happiness to them. Are you happy with who you are?

What I’m doing with my life

I am self employed and loving it! I am finally headed in the direction that makes me happy in regards to my employment. My job requires that I am outside more than I am in and I love it! I do have children who I adore and who are my world. I have a close knit group of friends and I am very close with my family, my cousin and her family and we spend a lot of time together. I love to travel, I am up for a road trip always! I have a fantastic sense of direction (and so does my GPS!) and can always find some new place to discover, some little town or village worth driving through. My future is bright and full of endless possibilities....my journey is nowhere near complete and the excitement of where life is taking me pushes me to new and interesting places.

I’m really good at

talking, laughing, being a mom, doing the jobs that make most people squeamish, being a dog walker and trainer, being bossy, being serene, being hilarious, being myself. I will always try to fix my own car if I can, I will always take something old and run down and restore it to something beautiful. I can cook, I am a neat freak. I am a great travel companion and I am really good at being a friend. I am really good at giving love and giving hope. I am really good at being ME!

The first things people usually notice about me

My tattoos but I am looking for beyond that. My eyes are true, windows to my soul. My smile, my laughter all real.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I am down with a whole wide variety of foods, music is a huge passion and I love almost all of the genres and do not limit myself to one set style of music. Can it make me smile, laugh, cry, sing, make my friends shake their booty and belt out Journey on the dance floor? Music is mighty powerful stuff! I am not a horror movie lover at all. Comedy, romance, intellectual, avante garde sure but no to horror.

The six things I could never do without

My children, my family, my friends, love, laughter, hope.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My new business, my children, how I can fix things like my car, or decorating my home. My next adventure, my past adventures, my family and friends, bettering my life, moving to the country...women think a lot!

On a typical Friday night I am

out or at home, with friends or alone....at the spa or winding down from a busy day. Unless its winter and the snow is deep,, then i am snowboarding, or heading towards the hills!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have never given up

You should message me if

You are done with sleeping around and booty calls. If you are emotionally mature and playfully immature all at the same time. if you have had your heart broken and mended from that broken heart, cleaned up your soul and your heart is open to real love. If you do not have another girlfriend, aren't dating someone else, aren't stuck in a failing relationship looking for the easy way out. If you are a genuine good soul. If you love living not just existing. If you are a kickass spirit kind of guy. If you think you could be my partner in crime on this journey called life.