I'm very down to earth and kind. I love to learn and am openminded. I am passionate about life and all I do and find pleasure in simplicity. My kids mean the world to me and I love times that I get to spend with all 3 together...a rarity now that two are grown and on their own (23 and 19). My youngest, 10, keeps me busy with his sports and whatever activities he wants to get involved in. :)

I am also very dedicated to my career...maybe too much so, but what I teach and the desire for my students to learn is a passion that keeps me constantly learning myself by seeking out and experimenting with new methods of teaching. I do love to travel and explore new places and plan to do a lot more in the near future.

As for what I seek:

My perfect man is strong...physically and emotionally...he is kind to others, but tough and aggressive when need be. He is intelligent and successful in his field. He is passionate and compassionate...sees life as having boundless opportunities...glass half full...optimistic...a good listener....likes to laugh...an infectious personality that puts others at ease. He is family oriented and loves sports...either playing or watching...loves the ocean as much as I do. We share many of the same interests, but appreciate and respect our differences. Someone who is my island to come home to at the end of the day and recharge before facing the world again...as I will be the same for him. A closeness of souls without having to be with each other 24/7.

Guess I want to fall in love like I have never before...totally giving myself to one man, but not be smothered...allow each other to grow as individuals and encourage each other to follow our dreams....

I am not looking for a casual hookup or a FWB...been there, done that and over it. Looking to find that love I can imagine, feel but never experienced...someone I can't imagine living without and it goes way beyond the sex...although that would have a big role, but someone who is my best friend...someone who I trust with anything and everything, knowing he would never betray me, but always be there for me when I really need him. Guess I'm a bit unconventional...Spend as much time as possible together but not have to be together 24/7. I'm very independent and have a life I love so am looking to take things slowly. I want something strong and lasting...a man who I want to happily grow old with...not just exist with...if I am just existing then it's not worth it because I'm dead inside.

Trying to live it fully and enjoy each day. I love learning so am always expanding my horizons :)

being a mom, a caretaker, listener, and advisor. I'm also very good at writing and cooking lol

My hair, eyes, smile and body...maybe not in that particular order, but hair is always first...have very long, thick, naturally curly hair that both men and women compliment me on wherever I go.

I am a book addict...my house is overflowing with books and I cannot walk into a bookstore without leaving with a few books. My interests vary...I love nonfiction as much as fiction.

I love watching movies, action and romantic comedies...however, I'm not big into going to the movies...just wait for them to come out on DVD. If I go, it's usually to take my youngest to a movie he wants to see.

I am a HUGE Big Bang Theory fan...makes me laugh. I am also faithful to Pretty Little Liars and Ghosthunters.

Music...I'm all over the place depending on my mood. Although, I'm not really into country or hardcore rap. Music is a memory maker for me...I can hear a song and be instantly transported back to a specific moment in my life.

I love to cook and bake...really love all types of food except for raw sushi and regular fish...love shellfish but not fish fish yuck!

My kids/family/friends
My home
reliable transportation
computer
phone
books

the future...where I want to go and what I want to be lol I like changing careers. My kids...their health, happiness and safety. Lastly...spend WAY too much time thinking about my job!!!

maybe the gym before going home to recover/relax from the work week. If I have my youngest son, we go pick up some food and a movie...other times, I may be out to dinner with friends or on a date.

I am a private person...meaning that I don't broadcast my life to all. However, I am very open and honest so if you have any questions, I have no problem answering.

You are NOT looking to just hookup. You are honest and looking to take things slow.