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35 Somerville, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:48pm
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, Italian, Portuguese

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I moved from Minneapolis to Boston for grad school in 2012. The winters here are much more tolerable -- so I'm staying. Also, I dig living in a city where you can bike and walk anywhere.

I am always game to do things at the drop of a hat and try something new. I look forward to many more New England adventures.

I enjoy good conversations, witty banter, and quirky people. I love hosting cocktail/dinner parties for friends.

I can't get enough of the smell of spring after a thunderstorm, farmer's markets on saturdays, reading on the beach, and outdoor concerts. I find myself chillin, listening to music, and people watching in cafe's and libraries, at the arboretum, or in a park with flowers and a picnic and a hammock. My creative side is filled with appreciation for good design, painting, and photography. I need diversity, travel, cultures, and romance languages in my life.

I thrive in the kitchen.

My nieces mean the world to me!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Putting my passion to good use -- improving the lives of patients. Quality Improvement Project Management in a hospital.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking without recipes
Listening and asking questions
Some competitive sports
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes or my laugh
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything that makes me laugh, cry or think.

TV and movies: Funny or suspenseful. Good plot, good story. Homeland, The Newsroom, True Detective.

Music: My Spotify stations are a wide variety and always changing. I love live music. I grew up with 90's hip hop and r&b and it never gets old. Lately - Shaky Graves, Lucero, Shovels and Rope, Lydia Loveless, Deer Tick, Trampled by Turtles.

Podcasts: Radiolab and This American Life.

Food: I love food so pretty much anything. Savory. I learned to cook Italian first so that's my jam. Asian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'd rather not go without:
FaceTime with my nieces
My bike
My girls
Taste buds
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next adventure and what I'm going to cook.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating and drinking at home or out with friends. Seeing a show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I both love and detest the word "Obvi."
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like to have interesting and intellectual conversations; you have a great sense of humor; and you are easy going.

You enjoy outdoor adventures -- hiking, biking, camping, and exploring new places.

You enjoy a little sass.