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32 Chatham, NJ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:56pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Currently I live in NC, but I'm up in Jersey for a week visiting family.
Note: After 1 more year I may or may not stay in NC- I'd be free to move just about anywhere.

Wander often, wonder always. --

You're friend tells you- hey, I'm going to New Orleans for a week and I have a hotel room paid for, do you want to come? I'll cover your valet parking too. What do you do?

Me: I took off one day from work, drove through the night on a Friday night after work, slept an hour or two in a rest stop, and arrived in New Orleans Saturday morning- before her plane from Boston arrived. I partied it up for 2 days. We drank Big Ass Beer, and "slushies", danced, ate alligator, and took a bus tour in the rain which turned into a water ride- (ask and I'll explain). Monday late afternoon-- I hopped back in the car and drove through the night to make it to work Tuesday.

Would you have come with me?

From a quiz where I thought- hey for once one got it kind of right. :D I "thrive on spontaneous playfulness and excitement." and waiting is like "emotional death."

All that being said- most nights I'm home, especially now that I started teaching elementary school full-time again. Teaching is a long time passion of mine, and I am constantly developing my knowledge in that area.

When it comes to finding love:

"Ever since sex became easy to get- love became harder to find" ---

"We are all a little weird, and life's a little weird, and
when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutual weirdness... and call it love" --Dr. Seuss

I'm looking for that person where we click and can fall into mutual weirdness together and have a blast living life together and going on adventures. If you love to hike, travel, have friendly debates, cuddle - and have an ability to be silly... we might be a match.

Eventually, I'm hoping to find this right person, build a strong relationship with them, and have a family.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living! :D

Getting healthy! I'm making some big changes- hoping for a life time change. It's be great to have people in my life who are also making healthy changes.

Running my own group now-- we're a bit of a hodgepodge ;)

Returning to the classroom as a teacher, after 3 years in grad. school... I withdrew from an Ed.D program-- and finding my passion for teaching again.

Being a Jersey girl up and down the east coast- FL, and now NC-- working my way north again it seems.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being dependable - especially for friends and family
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love to read. Reading is a big part of my life.
I also love an eclectic variety of music. You will often find me reading with music on in the background- or find me dancing around the living room to some favorite jam.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aside from the obvious - (water, air, etc.) and loved ones:

pen and journal
a car
a bra
books (not electronic- but actual paper)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life :) All of it. I think a lot- I have one of those "on" brains.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
As is with everything- it depends :)
You should message me if
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Opposites attract, but similar fundamental core values are necessary for a long term successful relationship. So ask about meaningful things to find out if we are a real match or not

You enjoy a good book, hike, road trip, song, snuggle, and morning fun....

You are ultimately ready for a big commitment with the right person-