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lissawbh

30 / F / Bisexual / Single

Chatham, New Jersey

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:12pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I like to think. I often dream...

I'd consider myself goofy, kind, genuine, intelligent, and complex. I can get very passionate about certain issues and I love deep conversations. If you can hold your own in a solid meaningful conversation, that's a plus in my book. But, I also love a silly conversation where we just laugh and people are free to be total goofballs.

I love to travel, both in and outside of the United States. There is so much to see in the world and I want to get a chance to see as much of the good stuff as I can and have some adventures along the way.

I love my family, but I haven't lived super close to them in about 5& 1/2 years. My immediate family is all in Jersey, where I grew up. Before coming to NC I lived for 4 years in Florida, while it's fun to visit I don't think it was the right place for me to live. I'm really enjoying being a bit further north and finding a nice compromise between Jersey and Florida weather here in NC.
What I’m doing with my life
plugging along on my doctorate degree in Education- specifically Curriculum and Instruction- early childhood.

Looking for adventures, traveling, trying to find time to be outdoors, but ultimately spending hours and hours in the library working,

Dreaming and planning my next trip-
.... China, Singapore, India? Canada, Brazil, California? ...where to next?)

oh, and looking for that something I haven't found...
I’m really good at
Starting conversations up with strangers, yep yep, 5 or 50 years old I can usually find a piece of common ground.
procrastinating, but finishing
being there when a friend really needs me
having passionate discussions
The first things people usually notice about me
Never asked...so I'm not sure
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love books: here are a few authors and books
Jane Austin
Jennifer Weiner
Wally Lamb
J. K Rowling
Books:
The Te of Piglet
Half Broke Horses by Jeannette Walls

But I've read a lot more- I almost always have some book in progress

Music: All depends on my mood- mellow, or do I want to dance, or am I driving ...road trips deserve special play lists. I'm truly eclectic

Song lyrics:
"Come on baby, let's just have fun,
let's breathe star dust into our lungs
let's drive too fast and go too far"

"...And I can't wait to get on the road again.
On the road again
Goin' places that I've never been.
Seein' things that I may never see again
And I can't wait to get on the road again.
On the road again -
Like a band of gypsies we go down the highway
We're the best of friends.
Insisting that the world keep turning our way"

Food: I'm random: plain smooth chocolate, grapefruits, cheese, and pickles ...recently I've also gotten into juicing and I try to eat somewhat healthy while still enjoying certain 'unhealthy' foods that I love.
The six things I could never do without
Six things I could NEVER do without:
The basics of life:food, air, water....etc
family and friends should go unsaid...

Six things I don't want to do without:
music
my flute
comfy feather pillows
books
paper/journal and a pen
passion/goals to give me reason
I spend a lot of time thinking about
education, the future, friends, politics, the state of the world.... etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
going out for a drink/ playing pool/ playing darts poorly but laughing anyway...
reading
writing a paper
watching something on Netfix...
But I'd rather be hanging out with someone special...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
shhh...it's private... come here and I'll whisper it in your ear if you promise not to tell...
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you like a little adventure
You like road trips, camping, hiking, board games, skiing or snowboarding, dancing....
you can teach me something new... or introduce me to something new..

you are willing to make a fool of your self in order to learn something new

(If you can't be bothered to write a full sentence, let alone reference something you liked from my profile, I can't be bothered to write back.--sounds mean? too bad :)