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48 • Plattsburgh, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 39–49
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Jun 19
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Working on Ph.D program
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
After that? Hell, I don't know. I guess people don't know what to do with me. I look like a meat-head, talk like a bookworm. I'm a meatworm?
Music: Replacements, Foo Fighters, REM, college radio.
Favorite quotes: "There is a point at which it is no longer possible to return. That is the point that must be reached." -Franz Kafka
"Stimpy, I'm so happy, I must go do nice things." - Ren
* 3x5 notecards - for writing out grocery lists or 3am epiphanies (which become 9am disappointments)
* Visits to walk dogs at the animal shelter
* Berry Boost juice from Bolthouse Farms
* The Duino Elegies
* Netflix watch-instantly
We can learn to truly depend upon one another. Rather than training to get some crappy *job* in the system, we can all start asking what *work* needs to be done for ourselves and others. We can ask ourselves what gifts we have for our planet and its inhabitants. So I'm trying to figure out what my role in this savage renewal will be, and how, as an educator, I can help people embrace the beautiful, terrifying possibilities here.
Despite an onslaught of bad news, I believe in love and the possibility of real humanity. I believe in the power of the open hand rather than the closed fist. I believe that five minutes spent truly hearing someone can change a life. (I suppose my sense of hope borders on the pathological.)
Any disclosure more private will have to wait until I trust you. Or until you bribe me.
I know, I'm not for everybody. Sometimes too poetic, sometimes just childish in my sense of humor. From philosophically erudite to subverbal as a caveman with a simple touch from a woman who really is all that, and knows it. Ready to fight everybody on the bus who doesn't give up his seat for an elderly woman, to buying a drink for everyone within earshot if one of my students has written an amazing paper on Faust. Hell, I can't figure me out, and I'm not expecting you to, either. I'm damn sure not going to put up an ad that makes me sound like I've been spying on your daydreams. I'm just a strangeling looking for some company over here.
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