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little_ben

31 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–100
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:47pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i'm a loyal friend and an honest person. i have strong opinions (albeit not always logical ones) but i'm always open to new approaches. i'm dedicated and witty, and i like to think that most people who give me a chance find it is worth the time.
What I’m doing with my life
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restructuring companies; living the dream; eating whole boxes of frosted flakes in one sitting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
riding without my hands on the bars.
The first things people usually notice about me
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people can hear me from pretty far away.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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[a] play it as it lays - joan didion; please kill me - legs mcneil and gillian mccain; the world according to garp - jon irving; sideways stories from wayside school - louis sachar; the swimming pool library - alan hollingshurst.

[b] night of the living dead. love!valor!compassion! the color purple. paris is burning. longtime companion. anything from the American Experience series.

[c] limp wrist. elliott smith. hole. the gossip. team dresch. propaghandi. the verve. nine inch nails. hot snakes. ill lit. jawbreaker. johnny cash. lou reed. minor threat. peechees. talking heads.

[d] curry chicken salad. baguettes. noodle soups. apples and peanut butter.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. the fam
2. the puppy
3. the bicycle
4. curry chicken salad
5. public radio and live music
6. beaches
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
outside. non-office life. my brother. friends that are far away. how much i hate that queer people get killed for no reason. how things work socially. how things work technically. trent reznor's butt. guacamole.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
depends on the season.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i own the Indigo Girls' "Rites of Passage" on minidisc
You should message me if
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you are so inspired.