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31 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:54am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
Berkeley native, two years back after a 10yr+ stint on the east coast. I moved back to be closer to my sisters and because I missed home, not everywhere has the honor of such a perfect micro-climate.
What I’m doing with my life
Workwise, I do data reporting for a school district, and while not exactly the most enthralling work, I very much like the people I work with.

Otherwise, twice a day walks for my dogs, beginner triathlon training, overcoming my embarrassment over the banal hobby of photography, video conference calls with east coast friends, eating and drinking with bay area friends, attempting to increase organization, looking for a better list/task manager, spending more time inside than is preferable, seeing random shows, being in love with the deYoung, playing in the dirt, flipping records, exfoliating, moisturizing.
I’m really good at
trying to avoid writing the self deprecating shit I want to type in this box.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
for books:
this side of paradise, fitzgerald
innocent eréndira and other stories, gabriel garcia marquez

non-fiction and travelogue.
bill bryson, i love you.

tv, hulu, netflix:
freaks and geeks, northern exposure, serenity, firefly, downton abbey, sherlock, house, californication, true blood, breaking bad, sanctuary, dollhouse, law & order, bones, fringe, new girl, community, how i met your mother, british mysteries, period dramas, game of thrones.

<3 movies, $6 tuesdays at emerybay! the new parkway!

<3 music, solomon burke, townes van zandt, woody guthrie, arlo guthrie, neil young, pixies, bob dylan, the band, velvet underground, ccr, al green, camera obscura, deer tick, m. ward, neko case, cat power, felice brothers, joan baez, joni mitchell, beach boys, stevie nicks, fleetwood mac, billy bragg, wilco, magnetic fields, ernest tubb, cat stevens, buddy holly, violent femmes, pogues, lázaro valiente, etc+

<3 food.
never met a recipe i couldn't follow. food is delicious.
The six things I could never do without
cast iron skillet
warm covers
cold beer
movie theaters
postage stamps
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I might've left my keys or if I've watered my plants.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably home early enough, dog piled on the couch with netflix running on the tv.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm bad at coming up with words on demand, I would make a terrible thesaurus.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 31–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You'd like to do stuff, grab a beer, walk in the city, hike about, go to the movies, eat food, visit the botanic gardens. I don't have a prescribed idea of who you should be but a heavy dose of sarcasm and wit are valuable skills.