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31 F Berkeley, CA

My Details

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
Berkeley native, two years back after a 10yr+ stint on the east coast. I moved back to be closer to my sisters and because I missed home; not everywhere has the honor of such a perfect micro-climate.
What I’m doing with my life
Beginner triathlon training, a little photography, video conference calls with east coast friends, eating and drinking with bay area friends, attempting to increase organization, looking for a better list/task manager, spending more time inside than is preferable, seeing random shows, being in love with the deYoung, playing in the dirt, flipping records, exfoliating, moisturizing.

Workwise, I do data reporting for a school district, and while not exactly the most enthralling work, I very much like the people I work with.
I’m really good at
trying to avoid writing the self deprecating shit I want to type in this box.
The first things people usually notice about me
Too subjective to tell, would be terrible if my hunchback, bum leg and grotesque facial scarring were too noticeable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
for books:
this side of paradise, fitzgerald
innocent eréndira and other stories, gabriel garcia marquez

non-fiction and travelogue.
bill bryson, i love you.

tv, hulu, netflix:
freaks and geeks, northern exposure, serenity, firefly, downton abbey, sherlock, house, californication, true blood, breaking bad, sanctuary, dollhouse, law & order, bones, fringe, new girl, community, how i met your mother, british mysteries, period dramas, game of thrones.

<3 movies

<3 music, solomon burke, townes van zandt, woody guthrie, arlo guthrie, neil young, pixies, bob dylan, the band, velvet underground, ccr, al green, camera obscura, deer tick, m. ward, neko case, cat power, felice brothers, joan baez, joni mitchell, beach boys, stevie nicks, fleetwood mac, billy bragg, wilco, magnetic fields, ernest tubb, cat stevens, buddy holly, violent femmes, pogues, lázaro valiente, etc+

<3 food.
never met a recipe i couldn't follow. food is delicious.
The six things I could never do without
cast iron skillet
warm covers
cold beer
movie theaters
postage stamps
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I might've left my keys or if I've watered my plants.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm bad at coming up with words on demand; I would make a terrible thesaurus.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 31–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to grab a beer or coffee in the Berkeley/Oakland area.

Or if you have a sibling with Down syndrome, let's be friends!, my sister is pretty great and a whole lot of other descriptive words... I bet your sibling is too. We could commiserate!