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43 Benicia, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 3
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Post grad
Might want kids
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm looking for a man who knows what he wants out of life and a relationship. Someone who is comfortable in his own skin and supports the lady in his life.

I'm easygoing, but not passive

i enjoy going to a party as much as I like chilling out at home

I like rooftop bars, as much as i like walking on the beach
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m educating our future (it’s a horrible time to make this career change, but I’m glad I did) and trying to save the world, in my way. I love art and try to create as often as possible. I’m currently metalsmithing and have found that I’m pretty good at it. In my spare time, I’m completing a Masters degree.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being silly. Not idiotic silly, but playful silly. Apparently, I'm good at not completing my self-summary, too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I asked a few friends this question; you know because what I think they notice and what they actually notice can be different...I’m easygoing and fun to be with. I think they really wanted to say that I had an amazing sense of fashion, ninja-like moves, can speak to dolphins in their native tongue and possess the elegance of Lena Horne, but they did want me to get too full of myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
So easy, I’ve got this. I like anything by John Irving, Amy Tan, or Barbara Kingsolver. I don’t care for nonfiction, especially self-help. I’m already introspective enough; I don’t need a nudge.

I love movies of any kind; I grew up believing that Oscar sunday was a national holiday. Some of my all time favorites are ‘Capote’ (I feel like I’m witnessing genius, ‘Grey Gardens’ (disturbing and sad) and ‘Memento' (just plain clean fun). As far as TV shows, I currently love ‘It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia’ and ‘The Guild.' I've also been known to laugh out loud while watching '30 Rock'. Weeds, Dexter, and Psych aren't too bad, either.

Oh music, I adore it all. OK, that’s an exaggeration. I like a lot of it and what I own is not a representation of my musical tastes. Different weeks my soul craves different genres. My all time favorite singers are Patsy Cline, John Legend, and Joss Stone. I, also, love jazz, neo-soul, hip hop, Latin, and rock.

We’ve saved the best for, glorious food. Even though, the other things in the section are important, food is by far the most. I think about it every day. In fact, multiple times a day. My favorite meal is breakfast; and if I had to have one thing for the rest of my life it would be salmon. However, I don’t have to so Thai, Indian, BBQ, Japanese, and a good burger round out my favs.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hmm, let's see. I couldn't live without my laptop (I've actually named it...just getting some of 'my crazy' out there), red shoes, my nephew's hugs (he runs and jumps into my arms...I don't look forward to the day he's too cool for me), the ocean, the people who know me (friends and family), color (in all forms...paint, sunsets and sunrises, people, and art), music, my sense of humor and something to read. I know that's more than six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Right now, I'm spending a lot of time thinking about what to write in my profile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Oh goodness, I don't have a typical Friday night. I could be at dinner, chilling with friends and a bottle of wine, at a concert or show, or on the couch pretending I'm not home. I really don't have a typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Nothing...that's why it's private.
You should message me if
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Contact me if you want to get to know someone who doesn't fit into a mold, loves to laugh, and really are interested in getting to know me as a person.