Self-summary is hard, isn't it?
Ok... here goes. I'm a weird blend of outgoing and introverted. This came about because I honestly don't expect many people to "get" me. I've worked pretty hard at putting myself out there into the world, and I'm one of those people Josrph Campbell described as Prickly, with some Gooey. Do you know Joseph Campbell? If so, that makes me happy. So I'm prickly with this very gooey center I hide from most of the world. Protective.
I like being really honest. I hate small talk. So this is really really hard for me. To cut out all the BS as much as possible but not sound too blunt... because I really think and I really feel. Picture a dumber version of Sherlock Holmes ( the BBC Sherlock version? Do you watch that? And read Joseph Campbell??)Yeah- I'm kinda asexual too. Kinda. I like sex sometimes- but it isn't a drive for me. I could go without it the rest of my life, or I could want it to connect better. It's just- "not my area". Did you read all of Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy and when the narrator asked if Arthur ever fucked you said to yourself something like "Oh. So that's what was missing. Maybe that is why I liked this book so much. Just humor. No gratuitous fucking except mentioning Eccentrica Galumbits. And here I was, not noticing? Well, that sucks. Here comes the sex. I wonder if I will still like this book?" Yeah. That. So if you go for Joseph Campbell, Sherlock, and felt that way reading about Fenchurch and Arthur... well then I'm begging you to contact me. Please.
** please don't contact me if you are interested primarily in sex- I realize I have to list myself as bisexual, but really I'm not bisexual. But, I don't care what gender you are. I am attracted to people, not their parts.**

I am a biromantic asexual (possible demi/gray but I'm not sure about that). I honestly don't know what I'm looking for either.
Wow- I sound kinda flaky don't I? I would totally understand your closing this window right now---but wait! I just sound that way because I'm freshly out of a 25 year relationship with a sexual male that I was desperate to make succeed (Oh, right! like talking about just getting out of a relationship doesn't throw up a lot of red flags for someone. Great) But-- really that should tell you I'm loyal, loving, romantic, really wanted things to work out, and my heart is currently a bit broken because someone didn't love me enough the way I am for it to work even though I tried my best to find compromise. Surely that counts in my favor? Maybe?
Man, I hate writing these things.
I think the chances of finding someone kinda sorta like me out here are slim, but I gotta hope for a touch of the same synchronicity that got me to watch Sherlock, go onto some boards to discuss it and discover that I was not a monogamous bisexual with a low sex drive, but a biromantic asexual, and then discover that I was the elusive female INTJ (Meyers Briggs). If all that can happen in the space of an hour to provide new clarity and focus to my life, then maybe,just maybe, it will synch up enough to find someone here.

thinking
attempting art
playing viola
being a mom to my son

they think I'm arrogant ;)
really I'm just a bit of in introvert (INTJ)

Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
Artemis Foul
Sherlock (BBC and ACD originals)
tirmisu
sushi
unique foods
Beatles

computer
cell phone
cat
books
Sherlock (patiently waiting for next season)
my son

...everything
seriously, I am a thinker.
I like to think about how things got to where they are. I like to follow trails backwards through time.
I used to think about making the world a better place, but now I just concentrate on making myself a better person. If everyone did that it would get better faster.

on Facebook keeping up with old friends from out of state

Well, I guess that would be about my sex life ( or lack thereof). I am a biromantic sexual (possibly grey-a/demi).
That's a bit of a complicated description, I know, and labels are for clothes, not people, but it helps to simplify.

You are looking for friendship or a possible relationship based on personality-based attraction.