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lives4art

40 / F / Straight / Single

Reading, Pennsylvania

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 6:39pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm open.
I'm looking for connections, I want to talk about art/film/books/spirituality/sex/intimacy/sustainability/community/expression/acceptance/appreciation/exploration/music/poetry/love....

What I do want,
friendships and relationships on multiple levels
(It's important to note i am not looking for all this in one person. )

movie buddy
drinking buddy (micro brews and dry wine etc... )
snuggle buddy
creative connections
spiritual connections (non-christian non-religious)
emotional connections
artistic collaborations or someone who will push me to get my creative muscles working hard again (still talking art here)
real dates... including but not limited to sustenance, beverages and entertainment

***Intelligence and creativity and passion and playfulness are true turn-ons.***

It's easier to say what I'm not looking for.
1.) I do not want to be entangled with someone married or stepping out on their significant other. (if you are poly and can prove to me you have real communication w/ your partner then that is a different story)
2.) I do not want a one hit wonder... unless it's going to be an extraordinary one hit.
3.) I am not looking for cyber sex... real life connections are what it's all about.
4.) I hate the term friends with benefits because from my experience there is never full fledged benefits or full fledged friendship... it's a very limited label in my opinion.
What I’m doing with my life
sleeping in, making murals, being a great mother, unitarian universalism, volunteering for social justice or arts related community events, bumming cigs, going to good friends houses for tea, ripping up magazines for collage, drinking with friends on occasion, movie watching, book reading, anything with the word "fest" (jazzfest, filmfest, fairiefest), doodling, sketching, checking out other cultures food fun and spirituality...
New favorite pass time is rollerskating, so if you are really good and want to teach me some moves that would be cool.
I’m really good at
drawing, painting, art, discussing books/movies/art.

People tell me I'm a natural teacher, I do not have a degree to teach but I like to share my knowledge and life experiences so maybe that's it.
The first things people usually notice about me
cool. glasses, hair, demeanor, smile, vibrant personality
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I haven't filled this out because there are just so many.
OK I'll tackle it a chunk at a time!

Favorite Authors: John Irving, Milan Kundera, Nikos Kazantzakis, Chuck Palahniuk, Tom Robbins, Anne Rice, Don Delillo, Paulo Coelho, Joseph Cambell, Hermann Hesse, Douglas Adams
Favorite Books: A Confederacy of Dunces, John Dies at the End,
Favorite Magazines: Bitch, UTNE, Juxtapoz, Raw Vision

I have dyslexic issues, if you are spelling or grammar police, know that there is a lot more to me....
or maybe it is not learning disabilities at all but my homage to
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The six things I could never do without
1. sushi
2. family & friends {[( HUGS )]}
3. netflixs
4. Halloween
5. snuggly cotton blanket with silky edges
6. sketchbook / artssssssss

above items are not necessarily in order of importance
I spend a lot of time thinking about
life.
what would my bug-out plan be in the event of a zombie apocalypse.
On a typical Friday night I am
out socializing or curled up on the couch watching a good movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am easily distracted... I burned breakfast while messing with my OKC profile

The personality section on here depicts me as considerably less well read and less mannered then average, which is totally wrong, I try hard not to fart or burp in public. Everything else OKC has gleaned about me is more or less true.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 29–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
you understand that the head, heart, and soul of a girl are also powerful sex organs, and you can approach me as such for some real conversation.
(I will not send nude pics)

"I know we haven't met, but I don't want to be an ant. You know? I mean, it's like we go through life with our antennas bouncing off one another, continuously on ant autopilot, with nothing really human required of us. Stop. Go. Walk here. Drive there. All action basically for survival. All communication simply to keep this ant colony buzzing along in an efficient, polite manner. "Here's your change." "Paper or plastic?' "Credit or debit?" "You want ketchup with that?" I don't want a straw. I want real human moments. I want to see you. I want you to see me. I don't want to give that up. I don't want to be ant, you know?" -Waking Life