I have an appetite for life, and the energy and personality to drive that appetite. My friends call me classy, funny, spunky, driven and non-traditional. I don't believe in being board. If you have nothing to do, my guess is YOU are boring.

I do believe that relaxing down time IS doing something--recharging your batteries for the next big adventure. [Life] is delicious. Men are [entertaining] yet confusing characters to me. I have no [desire] to convert them to my way of thinking. I have learned with my years of [wisdom] to love them even though I don't understand them. I desire someone to have [fun] with.

I do not desire someone who discounts me, or wants to control. [Respect] is a must, and when I am respected I am a very engaging and playful companion. Male feedback about me is, I am independent, spunky, classy and a good lover.

I am no longer into sizing men up for marriage when they ask me out for coffee. In fact I am questioning whether marriage is appropriate at all anymore, I suppose if I met the right guy for me I still would consider it.

Oh, yes...and I love to laugh.
You're move big guy.

I am shooting for fulfillment rather than achievement. I believe our society is made up of people who confuse the two often. I know tons of people who have a hummer and the house on the hill who are empty inside and can't figure out why. And then I know people who have no money that bask in love who are totally unfulfilled too! Ha. I desire to be somewhere in between. I want fulfillment along with achievement.

I am self employed and have been for over 16 years. I love working from home online and off. I have an 14 year old boy, and yes he already has a dad and they have a great relationship. So we share a kid (the part that sucks most about divorce).

I am currently designing the life I love and desire and deserve.

I am good at listening and that is why I am a life coach. Many people come to me for counsel and always have naturally, even before I went into listening for an occupation. Friends and clients come to me for advice (or they say wisdom). I listen and ask questions until I evoke the right answer to their own challenge from them rather than me giving them my answer which is probably only appropriate for me and not them anyway. They love me and think I am a genius because we always come to the right conclusion for them....(please don't blow my cover, they think I give them advice and answers when it is them providing both. I just listen to them long enough for them to figure it all out on their own with a few great questions on my part). So lets see...what am I good at? Loving people, and truly listening to them makes them feel loved.

My eyes, my clevege, and my hair....that is male people anyway. Women see my heart, and my friendship. Both male and female see my loyalty, and no bullshit approach. Truth is big in my book...friends say if they want the truth and to honestly change something...they call me. If they want to be let off the hook and someone to provide sympathy endlessly...they don't call me. Not that I am not sympathetic, I will let you vent and get it out, but when you are done...I ask you what you are going to do to change it. There is nothing in my world worse than wimps who complain and never take action to change what they are bitching about. Those are the people I steer way around. I have been told I am very compassionate.

Favorite books are self improvement
Movies: this one is hard...I used to do a movie group once a month as a life coach....so I have seen so many. I just love movies in general...mostly drama and comedy...no sci-fi or gore.
Music: pop rock, middle eastern, jazz, ragae, and good ole rock and roll...not acid or hard rock.
Food: veggies and protein. Bread hates me even though I like it! But I could live on chicken, fish, lean cuts of red meat and salads. YUK=brussel sprouts, okra, and guys who can't French kiss properly (hint: women are something not to be devoured, but to be savored). I have been told if you put someone in the dog house, you also must show him the door out! LOL

air, food, fun, clothes, the sun, exercise, chocolate, and water...then of course oxygen (but not in that particular order).

Everything...I have been told I am very analytical.

On my back patio with a friend and good food and a glass of wine. Or with my son riding bikes. I have him every other weekend.

Private?....well that will need to be done in person. I do not share my privates with strangers. lol

you are honest, can make me laugh, and can carry a decent conversation, and you like me! LOL You are confident, tell the truth, see the glass half full rather than half empty, are respectful, and fun and positive. You should especially message me if you like fast cars, motorcycles, snowmobiles, ski boats or long conversations, physical touch and quality time. I have learned their are 5 love languages: physical touch, quality time, acts of service, words of affirmation, and gift giving. I am the first two. I am told I deliver well on words of affirmation, and touch....maybe that is why I was a massage therapist for 16 years? And now I am retired but do work on friends and family...but honestly...I am looking for one myself most of the time. :)