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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 19
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i am:

a downtown, loft-dwelling photographer with the laid back style of a Texas cowboy. After a good dose of NYC culture, I'm psyched to retreat to my house in the country. Most weekends find me a few hundred feet off the ground or a few feet from the barbeque grilling a tasty ribeye. When I'm not climbing or grilling I can be found sailing the Hudson, Caribbean or Mediterranean; rum drink in hand.

although I'm an outdoor guy I haven't forgotten my indoor manners. I say please and thank you, open the door and believe the glass is half full; especially if it's a '75 Haute Brion! I drink from that glass by candle light even if I am alone but would prefer to do it with you...

my friends are actors, artists, dancers and fire-eating performance artists, as well as doctors, lawyers and stock brokers. Their nicknames for me are Maestro, Ambiance Man, Renaissance Man, McGiver, Indiana Jones and Chucho Duro (I'll explain when we meet).

traveling. I do it for work and pleasure and there's always a new place on the list. I try to visit a different country every other year and when I'm there I like to do what they do, eat what they eat and speak what they speak and simply find multitudinous ways to enjoy the new culture.

you are:

sexy, fit and adventurous. You are passionate with your man and passionate about the activities you love. You're a team player yet independent at the same time.

you take care of yourself and I will not give you a hard time for a manicure if you don't mind me choosing the color. I have impeccable taste! Shopping is not my fave but I'll be happy to carry the bags.

Thoreau said, "..if you endeavor to live the life you have imagined, you will meet with a success unexpected in common hours." If waking above turquoise water on a 42ft. sloop in the Maldives is appealing to you...then I will live the life I have imagined.

I am enthusiastic, passionate, and adventurous
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am actively ticking off everything on my bucket list.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Surprises, listening, sports, choosing the best dishes to order from restaurants, cooking, going to new places and finding the most interesting ways to see and experience them, back/foot massage
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
you tell me..........
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything about historical exploration. Endurance Shackleton's Antarctic Expedition
The Secret Voyage of Sir Francis Drake
Circumnavigating the World: Ferdinand Magellan
Godforsaken Sea
Fifty Places to Sail Before You Die
Let the Great World Spin

Miller's Crossing, Amelie, Man on a Wire, Blade Runner, Pulp Fiction, Apocalypse Now, The Deer Hunter, Sophie's Choice, Days of Heaven, Riding Giants

rock to classical

Thai, Mexican (the local taco truck,YES!) Sushi, French, Italian, Indian, anything spicy and Rib Eye steak grilled by me

I am obsessed with Cirque du Soleil
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my felines, bicycle, iPhone, red wine, wind, soulmate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Trans Atlantic Sailing Passage I'm about to embark on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Driving upstate to the country, or an event or dinner party with friends in the city
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Oh come on.............
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can ride a bicycle, know how to ski or snowboard, staying fit is important. Have a little black dress, smell good, like long kisses and enjoy a night on the town as much as a delicious meal at home by the fire with candles and good wine.
Adventures living aboard and sailing to exotic places with clear turquoise water might interest you.