if you're a good bodyworker or energy worker, a trade is nice.
Some of how I spend my time (personal practices):
i'm awakening, lifelong teacher and student.
some of my practices are:
meditation, conscious breathing, chanting, fermenting (kombucha, sauerkraut,etc, sprouting (seeds,legumes, etc for eating, juicing greens and vegetables, growing/juicing wheatgrass, largely omnivore raw foodist, conscious eating, stillness, hiking, running, stretching/yoga, qi gong, tai chi, reiki, shamanic energy work, massage, strength training, hot tubbing, sun gazing, daily taoist/tantric/qi gong sexual practices, contact improv, authentic movement, non-violent communication, emotional responsibility, co-counseling principles (aka re-evaluation counseling), alchemical energy play/work, liberation theory, writing, journaling, dreamwork, reading, play (literal), quiet time in nature, time with children, time with animals, time with people connected to their heart, mudras, abraham-hicks, touch, long hugs, smiling, practicing love vibration, gratitude practice, surrounding myself with people with good energy, time in water, productive work, service, allowing time to connect to feelings, contemplative time, time sharing intimacy, mirroring, listening,.
"“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
amelie, avatar, fried green tomatoes, zeitgeist, south of the border a good start.
Fun, Spiritual, connected, extended family, unrigid, holistic, emotional intelligence, socially end emotionally skilled, stable, emotional responsibility, non-violent communication, dreaming big, step by step, not afraid of work or a challenge, nature, woods, water, gym, hot tub, authentic movement, conscious breath, play, integrated dance, holistic life - not fantasy - (growing individually and sharing, not dysfunctional relationship), fit mind/body and heart/spirit.
A plus, Holistic lifework, good at massage and or energy work (like me).
open to friends or something more. not keen on pushing to make a relationship happen, desperation for romantic relationship, etc.. that's too unbalanced for me. i like to pay attention as what IS is revealed, rather than trying to make something my mind may want at a moment. intimacy, cuddling and witnessing are all highly valued.