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Social justice minded. Critical thinker. Devoted mama. Kind. Aware.
Real. Outdoorsy, but not a hiker, biker, runner sort. Somewhat
sarcastic. Somewhat serious. And a lot of other things...as we all
Into people who question what is and strive for what could
Looking for somethin' good with someone great... Someone genuinely
nice, thoughtful and non-pretentious...someone who actively engages
in critical thinking about privilege and oppression...someone who
is body positive.
I date women, men and trans men. I tend to be more attracted to
androgynous/ masculine folks.
I'm also interested in just meeting some new folks to grab a beer
or see a show with. Seems like I'm at that point in my life where
the friends I do have are all coupled up and/or have kiddos and/or
have moved from Seattle.
What I’m doing with my life
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-Working just enough to get by.
-Thinking and rethinking about stuff, especially the 'isms.
-Enjoying my grown-up/free time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
How about I really like:
Cooking, especially together, and when there's another grown-up to
do this with. Thrift store shopping. Veggie gardening. Farmer's
markets. Taco bus take-out and back-to-back episodes of Orphan
Black. Long walks. Long talks, particularly with wine in hand.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People notice...I'm nice, I'm short, I wear glasses...I dunno...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Reads: I'm more of an article/news snippet reader than a book
reader these days. Mostly I'm found checking out stuff on:
parenting, race/racism, feminist stuff, issues of
gender/transgender issues, body image/health at every size/body
Movies: I'm most into series shows like: Six Feet Under, Sons of
Anarchy, United States of Tara, The Wire, Scandal, Orphan Black.
Transparent was pretty awesome.
Music: indie/alt country, 60's/70's rock, strong women in rock,
bluegrass, hip hop. Mostly seem to listen to NPR on the way to/from
work these days... inspire me!
Food: Into the whole real food thing....organic, grass fed beef,
fermentation, sourdough, etc... And at the same time, I'm not at
all a food snob. I have my ideals and all but I love a diner omelet
and coffee or a dive bar for a cheap burger, fries and a watered
down beer. Also, I'm super into enjoying food and not at all into
the fat phobia that consumes our culture...so eat/drink up and
enjoy I say!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-my daughter -connection -down time -hope, plans, possibility
-good grub/beer/wine -probably a lot of other random stuff too...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-How to nuture kindness, empathy, self-confidence, creativity,
self-awareness (etc...) in my daughter. -Race, class, gender, and
that sorta important stuff. -How I could quit my job and live off
the land (which is an idea in stark contrast to the fact that I
also love living in the city). -How to find more creativity, fun
and joy in the day to day. -How to add something to the world
around me, particularly by making a difference in the lifes of
kids. -Whether or not lives or lifes is the correct word to use in
the prior sentence...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking wine and watching brainless t.v. and then snuggling up to
my daughter in bed. Or drinking wine and watching brainless t.v.
and snuggling up with myself in bed. Or drinking wine and
brainlessly people watching and thinking about snuggling up with a
cute, grown-up somebody in bed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I drive my grandma's car. When she passed, she gave it to my mom.
When my mom passed, I inherited it. ...Which sounds like it could
be cool, except it's not even vintage or anything...just a beat up,
scratched up, dirty Kia. But I'm good with it ;)
You should message me if
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-if it seems like we share a similar view of the world
-if you're kind, thoughtful, open, aware
-if issues of social justice are on your radar
-if your aspirations and values aren't surrounding wealth, and your
idea of beauty deviates from the standard
-if you are really open to and like kids
-if you think I'm kinda cute and sorta nifty sounding
-if you wanna grab a beer/coffee and chat and see what becomes of
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