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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 7
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 1" (1.55m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Has kids
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
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Social justice minded.
Devoted mama.
What I’m doing with my life
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-Advocating for the youngin's.
-Thinking and rethinking about the 'isms.
-Consciously parenting.
-Checking out from the world, which sometimes = beer, couch, t.v. and sometimes = a walk around the Seward loop followed by a snuggle with the pooches. Gotta have that down time!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
How about I really like:

Cooking, especially when there's another grown-up to do this with. Thrift store shopping. Veggie gardening. Farmer's markets. Taco bus take-out and back-to-back episodes of Orphan Black. Long walks. Long talks, particularly with wine in hand.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People notice...I'm nice, I'm short, I wear glasses...I dunno...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Reads: I'm more of an article/news snippet reader than a book reader these days. Mostly I'm found checking out stuff on: parenting, race/racism, feminist stuff, issues of gender/transgender issues, body image/health at every size/body love.

Movies: I'm most into series shows like: Six Feet Under, Sons of Anarchy, United States of Tara, The Wire, Scandal, Orphan Black, Transparent, Orange is the New Black, Grace and Frankie.

Music: indie/alt country, 60's/70's rock, strong women in rock, bluegrass, hip hop. I'm outdated... inspire me!

Food: I like to eat! Feeling guilty about enjoying food is not something I do anymore. Not interested in social norms around weight and weight loss. I've got some curves and this is groovy with me. Life is short. Eat up. Enjoy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-my daughter (stating the obvious)
-my few close, long-time friends
-down time away from the world
-pets (gotta get my snuggles in)
-access to activist thought/information/knowledge/persons
-and I'll be thinkin' on #6...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Kids and gender, kids and race.
-Race, gender, class stuff in general.
-If the head injury a kid sustained on the playground today warrants a doctor's visit.
-Will I ever be able to buy a house in Seattle? Or even be able to afford a 2-bedroom apartment?!
-Should I move to Vashon Island and start a mini-farm?
-Can I finally take that trip to Hawaii THIS year?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with the kiddo. Or if I'm free, getting take-out and watching some Netflix. Or occasionally hittin' the town, though I'm more of a drink a beer and talk rather than sip a cocktail and yell over the noise of the crowd sorta gal. But on occasion I might be found doing the later as well. Guess it depends on what strikes me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I drive my grandma's car. When she passed, my mom inherited it. When my mom passed, I inherited it. ...Which sounds like it could be cool, except it's not even vintage or anything...just a beat up, scratched up, dirty Kia. But I'm good with it ;)
You should message me if
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-if equity/issues of social justice are on your radar

-if you're kind, thoughtful, open, aware

-if your aspirations and values aren't surrounding wealth but you get that it takes money to get by, so you're figuring out how to make it work

-if your idea of beauty deviates from the standard

-if you are really open to and like kids

-if you think I'm kinda cute and sorta nifty sounding

-if you wanna grab a beer/coffee and chat and see what becomes of it