I want someone who can keep up with my busy schedule and whisk me
away when I need a break from it all. I want someone who is
confident in themselves, someone who has their own interests. I
think relationships work best when you can share some things, but
still have something that's yours.
I am overworked, easygoing, and hopeful
What I’m doing with my life
I work in the mental health/IDD field. I've been working in that
field for 10 years and I love working with my clients, but lately
I've been entertaining the idea of a career change. I strongly
believe every person needs to be treated with respect. I need
someone who feels the same way.
I’m really good at
multitasking and massages =)
The first things people usually notice about me
I have been told my eyes, but I think each person notices what is
important to them. Hopefully it is a positive observation :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I like classics and horror books. Though I admit I don't
read nearly as often as I should.
Movies: I love chick flicks that are set in olden times (anything
before the 1900s). I love horror and suspense too. Boondock Saints,
Fight Club, and Robinhood Men in Tights are some of my top picks
though. You can never watch those movies to many times.
Music:I listen to a wide variety. I have a little bit of music ADD.
i mainly listen to alternative rock and country though. Some of my
other favorites include: oldies, pop, rock, and sometimes Celtic
Food: Basically anything Italian is a good bet. I don't really like
spicy food and my friends quickly realize I eat the same few things
when we go to a restaurant (but why mess with a good thing?). But
there are a few things that people also seem to comment on. When I
eat grilled cheese I have to have ketchup to dip the sandwich in.
And my favorite ice cream of all time is dark chocolate ice cream
with gummy bears on top ( I guess people think the gummy bears are
weird?? Don't knock it until you try it though)
The six things I could never do without
Material things are nice to have but I can do without them. Good
friends and family are things I can't live without. Sometimes i
isolate myself but I always need those people that I can turn to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to get through the day and what might be in store for tomorrow.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working late- it depends on when I get out but most nights I just
head home and have a drink. I like going out to eat, bonfires,
small parties or going to a bar. I generally like less crowded
scenes. I feel that I can have a better time with a few close
friends/family rather than a huge party of acquaintances
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Well it's no fun giving away all the secrets =)
You should message me if
-You're not looking for one night stands
-Can at least tolerate country music. I do listen to it along with
a lot of other music but I grew up on it and you can't abandon your
-Don't play mind games. I don't do it and I get really mad when
someone tries to pull it over on me.
-You are single (aka no girlfriend/wife, if you are just causally
dating someone she should know you are on here looking for other
-you're honest. I can't stand liars. Other not so great qualities
don't bother me as long as your honest
-Tattoos are a plus =)
-I guess if you read this much you have a little interest. Shoot me
a message. I always try to respond =)