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ljpsf

44 / F / straight / Single

San Francisco, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am intelligent, down to earth, and love to laugh.

My Self-Summary

Friends who know me well might describe me as intelligent, sensitive, empathetic, determined, introspective, down-to-earth and analytical. While I can be shy, particularly in a group situation, I am deeply forthcoming when I feel comfortable with someone. I love to be around people who make me laugh and who also bring out my funnier side - I have the potential to be very silly and witty. I have been on a long personal growth journey and feel that I am coming into my own in my 40s - a bit of a late bloomer. I am finally doing work that I enjoy, that gives me a deep sense of satisfaction, and that I seem to be naturally suited for. While I'm not particularly religious, I consider myself spiritual and enjoy some of the Jewish holidays and practices. I have bright blue eyes and a slender body, and most people think I am a good 10 years younger than I am. In a match I am looking for a man who is self-aware, intelligent, attractive, funny, down-to-earth, kind and nontraditional. I dream about being with a man who enjoys the simple things in life like cooking a meal together or going for a long walk. I would hope that we would be connected physically, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually and that we would share a commitment to making a relationship healthy and viable. I look forward to enjoying companionship, support, and humor with a life partner and being able to plan a life together.

What I’m doing with my life

I am working as a psychotherapist intern and hope to do a combination of psychotherapy and mediation in private practice. I went to law school in my 20s and the profession was not a fit for me. I am SO much happier in the world of psychology. I am also on a dedicated personal growth journey which gives me a great deal of meaning and focus in my life.

I’m really good at

Making people laugh when I'm comfortable with them. Listening and supporting.

The first things people usually notice about me

My blue eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love films that have a lot of character development and that seem to reflect something authentic about people. Similarly with books I like to read psychology or a character-based novel. I recently read Middlesex and thought it was a fascinating look at gender identity and very well-written. I love all kinds of food especially Thai and Indian, although I am a pescetarian so no meat for me. I enjoy listening to all kinds of music and, while I don't do it often, I like to dance.

The six things I could never do without

Friends, meaningful work, my cat....I'm not really into "things"!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to support others in my work and personal relationships. How to become a more conscious being.

On a typical Friday night I am

Working (until recently) but now curled up on the couch with a good DVD.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I still have my baby blanket!

You should message me if

My profile sounds good to you. :--)