I'm looking for a girl that has a little bit of everything. Ideally, you would have Carrie’s wit, Charlotte’s optimism, Samantha's sensuality, and the Miranda's pragmatic approach to life. If you don't get the Sex in the City analogy, let's talk Disney. With Tigger's energy, you have Nala's confidence and Ariel's spirit, but at the end of the day you really feel like Jessica Rabbit. This whole chemistry thing can be a little elusive, many times you can't define it till it's there.
Above all else I've always been drawn to a quick wit and positive attitude. Best of luck to you in your search.