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lkwegener30

34 / F / straight / Single

Portland, Oregon

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am a 5'4, happy, and playful.

My Self-Summary

I am one of those stinking liberals, and I love and support our troops. I am a raging "offendamist." I have the crazy notion that being Christian, white, male, and heterosexual is not normal - it is just one of a million wonderful variations of what we can and might be. I believe Audre Lorde is right when she says that "the master's tools will never dismantle the master's house," that you get more flies with honey than with vinegar, that God is too big for one religion, and She has an excellent sense of humor (have you really looked at a platypus?). Yes, I said "She." I do not believe that women are necessarily better nurturers - biology does not determine capacity for love and giving. I believe that big girls and big boys DO cry. I cry when movies are happy. I cry when they are sad. I love to cry at movies, and even if I didn't love it, I simply can't help it. As far as I can tell, Clive Owen, Dane Cook, Ryan Reynolds, and Jeffrey Dean Morgan are the sexiest men EVER. I love the theater, books, good food, and good wine. I love to dance, to laugh, and to play. I believe that, no matter how gorgeous you are, "pleather" pants are an abomination. I love my friends, my family, my dogs, and my cats. I love my house. I love to live. I love to be out in my community. I love all the ugly pieces of my past, and I think they fold in beautifully with all the wonderful and exciting pieces. I love thunderstorms and heavy rainfall. I love the ocean. I love the smell of my puppies' paws, of sunrise, and moss when the dew is still on it in the mornings. I love two hour naps, 90 minute massages, and pedicures. I love to read books. I love to debate, but I hate to fight. I love the idea of love, the awkwardness and uncertainty of a first kiss. I love the smell of babies sticky and warm from a day spent playing in the sun, and the way they feel resting on my shoulder when they finally fall asleep at the end of that day! I believe in the goodness of humanity and I have hope for the future.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I am busy completing my masters degree in Sociology. I eventually want to complete my PhD, so that I can be a professor. I'd also like to write and be published...

I’m really good at

Helping people. Listening. Being supportive.

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite Music: I like it all...Well, mostly! But, some faves are The 80s, Ani Difranco, Hinder, Indigo Girls, Pink, Rehab, Kate Havenik, Ingrid Michaelson, Billie Holiday, Ella Fitzgerald, Cyndi Lauper

Favorite TV Shows: Chuck, Without A Trace, MASH, Criminal Minds, Dexter, House, Psych, NCIS, Bones, The Daily Show with Jon Stewart

Favorite Movies: Just about anything from the 30s, 40s, & 50s. But, specifically, and more recently produced...What the Bleep Do We Know, What About Bob, Crash, In-n-Out, Grease, Longest Yard, Office Space, Goonies, Borat, Hitch, 9 to 5, Love Actually, Wizard of Oz, Sound of Music, Rent, Fiddler on the Roof, Ghostbusters, Multiplicity, Chicago, Transformers, Hope Floats, Sleeping With The Enemy, Rat Race, The Holiday, The Pirate Movie

Favorite Books: "All-Time Top Three Favorites" - Lamb, Watership Down, and Wicked. And then, there's: The Secret, The Third Jesus, Cunt, Anything Stephen King, The Lovely Bones, Anything by the Sweet Potato Queens, Secret Life of Bees

Favorite Quotations: Boudicca - "But now, it is not as a woman descended from noble ancestry, but as one of the people that I am avenging lost freedom, my scourged body, the outraged chastity of my daughters. Roman lust has gone so far that not our very person, nor even age or virginity, are left unpolluted. But heaven is on the side of a righteous vengeance; a legion which dared to fight has perished; the rest are hiding themselves in their camp, or are thinking anxiously of flight. They will not sustain even the din and the shout of so many thousands, much less our charge and our blows. If you weigh well the strength of the armies, and the causes of the war, you will see that in this battle you must conquer or die. This is a woman's resolve; as for men, they may live and be slaves."

The six things I could never do without

My furkids. My family. My friends. The rest is just dressing!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Sociology. :)

On a typical Friday night I am

Depends....

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Nothing, I'm afraid.

You should message me if

you want! :)