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46 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 30
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Has kids
Has cats
English, German (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a spacious lover of life and I am naturally drawn to making deep connections with people who are equal parts playful, intellectual, sexy, dreamy, and down to earth. I'll mirror you...

I am home at the symphony, the corner bar, a dance hall, the library, the coastline, a punk show, a tent, &c. I love to cook, I like pie, and I eat a lot of vegetables. Going out and digging into life is one of my favorite things to do and that includes being home with a lover as much as it does out and about.

Let's explore the city --take in culture hi and lo-- drive to the coast, have fun. I appreciate humor, light heartedness, sexiness, I love to laugh, think, and play, and I'm a sensualist.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am an artist, educator, and a confident explorer. I have two kids, though they go to school in the midwest so I'm effectively a single guy except when I'm visiting them or they're visiting me (which is monthly for an extended weekend). I keep my social life and my dad life separate, so I'm not looking for there to be any kind of overlap between lovers and children....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, traveling, thinking, expressing, taking turns, understanding complex ideas, sharing, being quiet, sensuality, cooking, enjoying deeply the experiences of life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are my blue eyes, my sexy jaw, and my warm open face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read, love music, love film, love to cook and to eat good food.

Recent Authors include: Haruki Murakami, David Foster Wallace, W.G.Sebald, Rebecca Solnitt, Herta Muller, Neil Gaiman, Neal Stephenson. Have you read The Ethical Slut? A must read!

My musical interests are broad and deep --chamber, jazz, avant-garde and experimental, pop, electro, dance, indie, punk, reggae, urban funk, noise...

Film Directors in no particular order include: Claire Denis, Terrence Malick, Wim Wenders, Jacque Rivetter, Jim Jarmusch, Wes Anderson, PT Anderson, Godard, Billy Wilder, Sam Fuller, Anthony Mann, Nicholas Ray, Chantal Akerman, Herzog.....

No t.v. in particular

I love cuisine and culture and eat from every nationality with unbridled joy. In the kitchen I improvise with vegetables and spices, sometimes pasta, often salads and soups. I have a good sense of taste so my creations are savory, though I'm not a recipe following brilliant chef type. Because I love fruit, vegetables and nuts and seeds, I sometimes eat raw and for the same reason primarily cook vegetables, though I am a dedicated omnivore/locavore
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
travel to cities
the people I love
vegetables (+ chocolate!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How amazing and fun and beautiful and sad it all is!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often traveling, and always engaging my passions. Some of my best Friends are books. And records. No anti-presence devices at all. I meditate. Drink lots of green tea. Ride things that have wheels but aren't a car.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can fly?
You should message me if
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you're an open-minded traveler, steering clear of societal norms and also interested in exploring fun, safe, sexy, nourishing connections.