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36 M Maple Valley, WA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 11:20pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update: maple valley really isn't that far from Seattle. It's a 30-45 minute drive( I should know, I drive it about 2-4 times a week.... And it really isn't that bad). So please don't hold it against me that I live here. Trust me, I would move to Seattle in a heartbeat if I could. I'm only here because its where my recording studio is. I think my highest match within 10 miles of me is a 67%. Where as there seem to be hundreds of 90% or higher matches In the city. Cut me some slack you seattlites! I live I maple valley! Not the south pole!

I'm not really looking for anything too serious right now. I'm not in any position to be that great of a boyfriend at this stage of my life. I'm much more into genuine and unconditional connections. I prefer casually hanging out as opposed to a dinner or coffee date. Sometimes dates feel like job interviews and I find myself almost trying to sell myself or whatever...... I'm kind of done with that..... I don't really want the job in the first place..... You know?

I'm not trying to come off as picky or snobby.... But I am really only interested in women who have a passion in some sort of artistic field- preferably music or acting, who are non monogamous, and if possible, are bisexual as well. I'm not opposed to meeting straight women either, it's just that I tend to get along way better with bisexual girls for some reason. And it's not that I don't think that a woman could be completely amazing without any of the above's just that I'm really interested in women with those qualities.

I'm a musician/recording engineer who is also highly interested in making films, stand up comedy, acting, poetry know.....shit that requires passion and if done right makes a positive contribution to the world. I would really love to meet some women who are the same way- or at least supportive of that.

I play piano, guitar, bass, drums, and I also sing. Music is pretty much my life. It is not something I just do as a hobby.....It's the main reason I exist.

I love hiking as well. If you do, then it's a bonus, but not a requirement.

I'm a Libra sun, scorpio rising, cancer moon, either Libra or cancer mercury...I can't remember, and Virgo in Venus....for all you astrology freaks out there.

Here is a list of things that I look for when I browse over profiles:

1. A convincing passion for some type of art- preferably music or acting, but anything creative is admirable. And convincing means that you either have a career in that field or are striving for one or it is at least a very important part of your life...... If its just a hobby, then you're not that passionate about it.

2. A vivid personality that comes through in either your words or your pictures.

3. Originality in the things you say, and the ability to avoid using cliches like: "I don't know what to say here"- in your self summary or " food is good" or " yes please" before listing your favorites or "living it"- under what I'm doing with my life........ And the absolute most annoying of all..... "if I told you, it wouldn't be private"..... Come on people..... The whole point of these questions are to give you a chance to give the reader some insight about yourself..... If you don't say something interesting, it just makes you look kind of boring and lame. I like women who have something funny or interesting to admit, or maybe who know how to describe themselves and want to.

4. A unique look- I like women who aren't afraid to be expressive.

5. Multiple good pics- I don't just mean that you are good looking in your pictures, I'm talking about good pictures, that aren't so predictable or similar to all your other ones. It is annoying when the pictures just flat out don't make any sense. I'm not sure what good it does to post pictures of you standing 500ft away in the background, or maybe not even in it at all....the blurry pictures of you in the dark probably don't bring out your best features either. I like profiles that have good, interesting, original, and insightful pictures.

6. Long list of favorite movies and music. I love hearing about the bands and movies that are sacred to you. Books and food favorites are good to know also, but if you go on and on a out those two subjects and ignore the music and movies...... You may as well ignore me too. And I can't stand the whole " it's too long of a list excuse"!! Come on!! If you can't list even a few of your favorites, then you are not that passionate about it. So many times I've seen someone give that excuse for music and then proceed to list 500 different foods that they enjoy.

Ps. Our match % is slightly lower because I answered that the Earth is bigger than the Sun.... here is the explanation I left:

Obviously the sun is bigger than the earth if you take the question literally. Isn't it like 55 times the size or something like that? But there is only one thing you could possibly do on the sun and that would be to disintegrate. Earth has millions of possibilities. One will never experience all it has to offer in one lifetime.

I'm proud of that answer and I refuse to change it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Playing in bands, recording bands in my studio, doing the sound for an indie film. Changing my life by giving up drinking....Basically, I'm trying to get as far away from a typical life in the suburbs as I possibly can.

Update: I recently made my debut in stand up comedy.... I'm hooked.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
playing instruments, performing music, recording music, editing audio and video, making people laugh, dealing with drunk people, being there when people need favors, analyzing people and situations, keeping calm in challenging situations, taking way too long to finish creative projects, playing songs on an acoustic guitar that you usually wouldn't hear played on an acoustic guitar, remaining patient in highly unpromising areas- like online dating ...being sarcastic, listing things that I'm good at, air hockey, Mexicali ( the world's greatest dice game), Risk, talking to complete strangers at parties, fixing things using 0% logic or knowledge and 100% intuition ( I'll seriously just sense that if I just move this here, or push that there, that it'll fix the problem....and, most the time, it does), overthinking things, writing too long of messages or sections of an online dating profile, remembering people's birthdays, .....I guess I'll refrain from listing sexual things here...damn it!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm much nicer in person than I am in my writing..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite bands of all time: The Doors, Radiohead, Pink Floyd, Massive Attack, Broadcast, Tool, Nirvana, Led Zeppelin, Jimi Hendrix, NIN, U2, Old school Michael Jackson and Prince, The Pixies, The reverend horton heat, The Talking heads, Muse, early metallica, gun's n roses, The Misfits, The helio Sequence, LCD soundsystem, Syd Barrett, Sonic Youth, Air, Boards of Canada, DJ Shadow, The Black Angels, Outcast, Thievery corporation, and much much more

Favorite Movies of all time: amelie!!! The princess bride!!!! Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind!!! And of course,!!! Lost in translation!!!!!!............... Oh wait.... Those are your favorite movies.

My favorite movies: Inland empire.............(Most brilliant movie one ever gets it, not even hard core Lynch's sooo frustrating), Blue Velvet, Jacob's ladder, Clockwork Orange, The Shining, Waking life, Enter the Void, Twin Peaks: Fire walk with me, Pee-wee's big adventure, What dreams may come, Office Space, Orgazmo, Donny Darko, Melancholia, Mystery Train, The Wall, The Doors,......

Favorite Books: The way of the peaceful warrior, The celestine Prophecy series, The 3 pound universe, the 7 spiritual laws of success, and just about any biography on any musician or artist of some kind.

Favorite Personalities/Attitudes: Andy Kaufman, Slash, Jim Morrison, Madonna, Dennis Rodman, Jack Nicholson

Favorite fictional characters: Tony Clifton, Frank Booth (blue velvet), Pee Wee Herman, Orgazmo, Fire Marshall Bill, Homey the Clown, Krusty the Clown, Napoleon Dynamite, Jack Torrence ( The Shining), Sal Rosenberg, Frank Rizzo, Tarbash the Egyptian Magician, Homer Simpson, Hank Kingsley (The Larry Sanders Show), Ole Greg (the mighty boosh), Pat (snl), Sharon Stone's character in the original basic instinct, Comic book guy (the simpsons) Leo (Twin Peaks), Alex (Clockwork Orange), Patrick Bateman (american pyscho), I'm sure I'll think of more

Favorite foods: Thai ( Thai thom's, Jai Thai, fairwood Thai) Indian, serious pie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A sense of purpose, my musical instruments, my recording studio, close friends/relatives, passion, and new experiences
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The point of life, music I love, artist who I admire, women who I fancy, comedy skits, imaginary and real movie characters, conspiracy theories, the absurdity of human thinking on certain topics (usually religion, love, marriage..stuff like that), song lyrics, the core differences between liberals and conservatives.....I could go on....

Update: ok, I'm going on..... Why okcupid continues to think I might like women who are lower than a 50% match, why the browse setting is always defaulted at special blend instead of match %.

Would the Beatles of existed if John and yoko would of met when they were teenagers.... Would they of even succeeded as a couple...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually playing a show somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Part of me believes that Trish Keenan of Broadcast was in fact my soul mate.... Even though I don't believe in soul mates. God damn that woman had a gift. There's no other human voice that hits me the way hers does. And her lyrics totally speak to me. So many times, I'll be sifting through profiles on this site and in my head, I'll hear her sing, " what's the point in wasting time..... On people that you'll never really know?..... Come on let's go"- from Come on let's go.

I still love stairway to heaven.

I sing along to old school Michael Jackson..... Often.... And quite well I must admit.

I have just gone up to a random girl at a bar or whatever and just kissed her passionately.....Without saying anything... With nothing more than just some eye contact to go on... I've done this about 20 times in my life and never once got slapped or yelled at. It has been recipricated everytime......I'm not sure if this will ever happen again now that I don't drink anymore, and I should probably quit while I'm ahead.....

I prefer miracle whip to real mayonnaise...... I'm sorry, it's what I was given when I was growing up.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. You are an artist of some kind and are highly passionate about it.
2. You are far too in love with your own life to want to settle down and have kids
3. Life in the suburbs really doesn't appeal to you.
4. You're open minded.
5. You can take a joke.
6. You are bisexual ( not because of the whole threesome's just that from my experience, bisexual women are far more open minded and drama free. Most of by best female friends are bisexual.
7. You listed actual band names and movie titles instead of just saying, oh I like everything.
8. You don't need me
9. You aren't monogamous.
10. You think I would be a cool person to know.