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36 M Maple Valley, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:45pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
I'm a musician/recording engineer who is also highly interested in making films, stand up comedy, acting, poetry know.....shit that requires passion and if done right makes a positive contribution to the world. I play piano, guitar, bass, drums, I is pretty much my thing. It's not something I just do as a hobby.....It's the main reason I exist.
I love hiking as well; if you do, then it's a bonus, but not a requirement.
I'm really not looking for a relationship right now. Not only am I super busy, but I just got out of one, and I really need to focus on my own life right now. I can't possibly be monogamous right now, or even anyone's primary. I can be a good friend and/or a good lover.... That's it.

Ps. Our match % is slightly lower because I answered that the Earth is bigger than the Sun.... here is the explanation I left:

Obviously the sun is bigger than the earth if you take the question literally. Isn't it like 55 times the size or something like that? But there is only one thing you could possibly do on the sun and that would be to disintegrate. Earth has millions of possibilities. One will never experience all it has to offer in one lifetime.

I'm proud of that answer and I refuse to change it.

I'm a Libra sun, scorpio rising, cancer moon, either Libra or cancer mercury...I can't remember, and Virgo in Venus....for all you astrology freaks out there.
What I’m doing with my life
Playing in bands, recording bands in my studio, doing the sound for an indie film. Changing my life by giving up drinking....Basically, I'm trying to get as far away from a typical life in the suburbs as I possibly can.
I’m really good at
playing instruments, performing music, recording music, editing audio and video, making people laugh, dealing with drunk people, being there when people need favors, analyzing people and situations, keeping calm in challenging situations, taking way too long to finish creative projects, playing songs on an acoustic guitar that you usually wouldn't hear played on an acoustic guitar, remaining patient in highly unpromising areas- like online dating ...being sarcastic, listing things that I'm good at, air hockey, Mexicali ( the world's greatest dice game), Risk, talking to complete strangers at parties, fixing things using 0% logic or knowledge and 100% intuition ( I'll seriously just sense that if I just move this here, or push that there, that it'll fix the problem....and, most the time, it does), overthinking things, writing too long of messages or sections of an online dating profile, remembering people's birthdays, .....I guess I'll refrain from listing sexual things here...damn it!
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm much nicer in person than I am in my writing..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite bands of all time: The Doors, Radiohead, Pink Floyd, Massive Attack, Broadcast, Tool, Nirvana, Led Zeppelin, Jimi Hendrix, NIN, U2, Old school Michael Jackson and Prince, The Pixies, The reverend horton heat, The Talking heads, Muse, early metallica, gun's n roses, The Misfits, The helio Sequence, LCD soundsystem, Syd Barrett, Sonic Youth, Air, Boards of Canada, DJ Shadow, The Black Angels, Outcast, Thievery corporation, and much much more

Favorite Movies of all time: amelie!!! The princess bride!!!! Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind!!! And of course,!!! Lost in translation!!!!!!............... Oh wait.... Those are your favorite movies.

My favorite movies: Inland empire.............(Most brilliant movie one ever gets it, not even hard core Lynch's sooo frustrating), Blue Velvet, Jacob's ladder, Clockwork Orange, The Shining, Waking life, Enter the Void, Twin Peaks: Fire walk with me, Pee-wee's big adventure, What dreams may come, Office Space, Orgazmo, Donny Darko, Melancholia, Mystery Train, The Wall, The Doors,......

Favorite Books: The way of the peaceful warrior, The celestine Prophecy series, The 3 pound universe, the 7 spiritual laws of success, and just about any biography on any musician or artist of some kind.

Favorite Attitudes: Andy Kaufman, Slash, Jim Morrison, Madonna

Favorite fictional characters: Tony Clifton, Frank Booth (blue velvet), Pee Wee Herman, Orgazmo, Fire Marshall Bill, Homey the Clown, Krusty the Clown, Napoleon Dynamite, Jack Torrence ( The Shining), Sal Rosenberg, Frank Rizzo, Tarbash the Egyptian Magician, Homer Simpson, Hank Kingsley (The Larry Sanders Show), Ole Greg (the mighty boosh), Pat (snl), Sharon Stone's character in the original basic instinct, Comic book guy (the simpsons) Leo (Twin Peaks), Alex (Clockwork Orange), Patrick Bateman (american pyscho), I'm sure I'll think of more

Favorite foods: Thai ( Thai thom's, Jai Thai, fairwood Thai) Indian, serious pie.
The six things I could never do without
A sense of purpose, my musical instruments, my recording studio, close friends/relatives, passion, and new experiences
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The point of life, music I love, artist who I admire, women who I fancy, comedy skits, imaginary and real movie characters, conspiracy theories, the absurdity of human thinking on certain topics (usually religion, love, marriage..stuff like that), song lyrics, the core differences between liberals and conservatives....I could go on..
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually playing a show somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Part of me believes that Trish Keenan of Broadcast was in fact my soul mate.... Even though I don't believe in soul mates. God damn that woman had a gift. There's no other human voice that hits me the way hers does.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
1. You are an artist of some kind and are highly passionate about it.
2. You are far too in love with your own life to want to settle down and have kids
3. Life in the suburbs really doesn't appeal to you.
4. You're open minded.
5. You can take a joke.
6. You are bisexual ( not because of the whole threesome's just that from my experience, bisexual women are far more open minded and drama free. Most of by best female friends are bisexual.
7. You listed actual band names and movie titles instead of just saying, oh I like everything.
8. You don't need me
9. You aren't monogamous.
10. You think I would be a cool person to know.