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44 Lubbock, TX Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 33-64
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 21
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Other and laughing about it
Has kid(s)
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
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I am a 39yr old polyamorous woman living in a triad. If you pay much attention this used to say something different about my relationships but change happens. I love the violence of nature, the serenity of children, the chaos of order, the texture of polished granite and the attraction of negativity. I live and breathe for cheesecake.

In my summary I should include what I don't like...narrow minds, self-righteous pricks, christian nazism, the extreme right. If you belong to any of those camps DON'T BOTHER I am not interested in being able to look through a keyhole with both eyes or in anyone who can. If you are in one of those camps I will cyber with you while showing my Spice(plural of spouse) making fun of you and giggling madly! I also don't like cheesecake's not the real thing it's like wanting oral and only getting fingers.

Having said all that I should tell you I am a hedionist at heart. I love velvet, 400 or above count cotton sheets, the feel of warm rain on my naked flesh, silk "loungewear",the texture and taste of my lovers' skin, and anything that smells like summertime and warm wind.

BTW I have a physical disability if you IM me I type slow...GET OVER IT. I don't think slow, my fingers limit my speed. No! I am not doing something else.

I am tall, poly, and unique
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Not a damn thing...not that anyone bothers to read this crap.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, art, world of warcraft, sewing, ignoring people who want to cyber with me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Height and my limp
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books by Laurell K Hamilton,Anne Rice,Heinlein, and a lot of others I read and have read gobs and gobs including trashy romance novels and classic literature if someone cared enough to put it down on paper I will read it.

Music by: someone who does not suck ie alternative,metal,country,classic rock,classic country. I even love "hair bands" and the blues.

Food by: someone else, I am tired of cooking. Have I mentioned cheesecake I love the sensuality of good food and have an oral fetish when it comes to a really good cheesecake.My oral fetish is probably why I will never be thin.

Movies by: I don't care because I have trouble sitting down and paying attention that long. If I bother it's Phantom of the Opera, Lord of the Rings, or historical films like Elizabeth.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
diet coke, cheesecake, family, flowers,ibuprofen, I love cheesecake, in fact ,I would say it's an obsession.

So for months there have only been 5 in this category and no one has said anything about that...(sigh)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
laundry ( I do it almost everyday and have nothing clean) Poly polyamory open marriage the fact that I hate to type yet have started writing a column and the fact that cyber is silly, my comp is in an office that has a lot of traffic and normally most of my Spice are sitting around me on the other computers. So if you IM me for cyber-sex I really will make fun of you, alot! Why no one ever messages me...sigh

I am also wondering why it does not have the option to say drugs: gave them up for lint...The misspelling is on purpose.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing with my grandson.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I play D&D. Trust me this is a huge revelation. I am such a geek.

I should also mention that I think I am funny. So if you read something I have written and it is a bit confusing or seems like I misunderstand the meaning of a word (like zen)...this is probably on purpose. Seek the irony in the statement or the absurdity.
You should message me if
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you want to chat and such