I believe in YOLO, and do not waste my time fretting about misgivings. Regular exercise keeps me filled with positive energy and is one of the three cornerstones of my life. The other two are singing and gaining knowledge about this world. I have my ambitions but they may not align with a career or money. I am a minimalist, but spend well on things I find worthy (e.g. bed, shoes, bikes).
Based on what I have been told and observed, I am more sensitive/considerate than most guys. This makes me a good listener, caregiver, gift-buyer and romatic-things-doer. Imagine Ted Mosby or John Dorian. I ain't even kiddin'!