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38 • Pittsburgh, PA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 28–41
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 6:10pm
- 5′ 11″ (1.81m)
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs
I went on a road trip across America with a complete stranger. I'd do it again. Not with you, though. Well, maybe with you. I don't know. It was fun and I wrote about it.
I spent most of the last few years traveling and writing and I'm now finally looking forward to settling back into a more stable life here with a job and an apartment and whatever.
My ideal job is writing novels in a snowy cabin but Pittsburgh is a pretty awesome city so I'll write novels here for now. One of my goals as a writer was to get my work in book stores. It happened! I sneaked right in before bookstores don't exist anymore. It was also a number one bestselling book which has a funny story behind it that I'll tell you, if you want to hear it. You probably DO want to hear it.
Some people call themselves writers and don't actually write anything. They think it's glamorous? Writing, like all art, is work. I don't know if what I write is art, though.
OH and people see "writer" and make a lot of assumptions. Let me dispel those right away:
- I'll never be a financial burden, ever
- I have dreams and goals and I actively work towards them
- I bathe and have a car and a job (when I need one)
Also, making fart noises with my hands:
Getting paid is a forte
Each and every day, true player way
Recently I've been reading about the history of Paris and listening to ACDC so I'm all over the place anyway. Not in a hipster way but more like in a "I'm going to follow my interests" kind of way.
I will go to any wedding, anywhere, at any time. I love weddings. Is it because I'm a stupid romantic or that I like free booze? IT'S
NOT THE BOOZE. but it doesn't hurt.
I've often said that I can go anywhere and do anything if the company is good. Don't underestimate the value of good company.
I'll eat anything. I have the palate of a goat. A cheeseburger over the kitchen sink or a fancy dinner at Salt are basically the same when it's just up to me but unlike a goat, I can appreciate well-crafted food experiences. Food that somebody makes for me is automatically better than anything I could buy.
3) memories of how awesome high school was
5) competitive eating
7) making up fake lists
how funny this joke is:
innuendo: (n) Italian suppository
- food and booze with pals
- at the 61c Cafe, writing
- at the In Bed Before Ten Dance Party at Spirit (even though I don't dance - I'm complicated!)
- something I don't normally do (which I do as often as possible)
- taking my clothes off for money
I'm actually interested in an actual adult relationship with another adult. This means I'm not interested in polyamory, sure, but it also means I'm not really looking to involving myself in your open marriage. I'm completely in favor of those arrangements for consenting adults who find them fulfilling. Me? Not so much.
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