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  • Ages 25-36
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Last online
Today – 10:05am
6' 3" (1.91m)
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Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I'm happy with a big 'ol side of creative.

+art crit
+wish i read more books
What I’m doing with my life
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Music. It's my job, my hobby, and a good chunk of my social life.
I’m really good at
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creating things from scratch.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a story.

Not really straight. Not really bi. Not really gay. Labels.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Rinse FM.

Radiohead & whatever Thom Yorke is doing. Atoms for Peace.

House & Techno. Paleman, New York Transit Authority, Mickey Pearce, Tale of Us, Tennis, Heidi, Dixon, Ame, Gaiser, Loco Dice, Matthew Dear, Ben Klock, Scuba, Modeselektor, Dave Clarke, John Talabot, Adam Beyer, Ida Engberg, Gui Boratto, DJ Misjah, Boddika, Joy Orbison, Richie Hawtin, ADULT., Sven Vath, Thievery Corporation.

Modern electronics. Burial, Boards Of Canada, Phillip Glass, Can, Sigur Ros, Portishead, Squarepusher, Aphex Twin, Plastikman, Massive Attack, film scores by Thomas Newman, Atticus Ross & Trent Reznor.

Hip Hop and Grime. Sir Spyro, Clipse, Missy Elliot, A$AP Rocky, A$AP Ferg, Pusha T, Army of the Pharaohs, Celph Titled, RA the Rugged Man, Esoteric, Kendrick Lamar, J Cole, The Roots, Wiley, Ab-Liva, Sandman, The High & Mighty, Gang Starr, GZA, Saigon, Ghostface Killah, Raekwon.

Guitars and feelings. Nine Inch Nails, Bowie, Nirvana, American Analog Set, Beck, Doves, Tears for Fears, Interpol, Simple Minds, Depeche Mode, Modest Mouse, Cee-Lo Green, Ween, New Order.

Blue is the Warmest Color. American Beauty. Anything Catherine Breillat, Solondz. IFC shorts. Talk Radio. Asian revenge flicks. French indie stuff. Anything deeply hilarious, incredibly moving, dark, with excellent cinematography, or just has a unique method of tending to the details.

HBO series.

Lorrie Moore is easily my favorite writer.

I stay religiously on top of media, even media I passionately disagree with. (See: right wing talk radio) That said, I am all over The Atlantic, The Economist, Sunday NY Times and the New Yorker. I read a ton of blogs, sites. It's important for me to be informed.

Others: Brian Eno: Visual Music, A Photographic History of West Coast Hip Hop, How Music Works, Art of Happiness, The Poetics of Space. Telling the Story, Sex at Dawn, Opening Up, Survivor, Days of War Nights of Love: Crimethinc for Beginners, Unbearable Lightness of Being, Cradle To Cradle, Perks of Being a Wallflower.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The people in my life who care enough to push me to be better. There has to be at least six, at any given time.

And coffee. (How am i supposed to be better if i haven't even had a cup of coffee yet?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
attaining a deeper sense of empathy. Pretty heavy answer for the okc machine, but true.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
work too late. get on bike. take the long way. wear headphones. hip hop or techno. art opening? catch the end. ok, dinner time. easy to get in at 9pm. go to the nice place, you only live once. buy your friend a dinner. should i go out after? dessert sounds good. there's a good party? she's a great dj. can't believe i'm still awake. was a long week. feel spent. give all i have, then give everyone a hug. raspberry bars are in the cupboard. eat the last one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think the hottest attribute in any person is a honest, strong sense of self. Close second is a great smell, natural or enhanced.
You should message me if
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You know you, you would like to know me, and you think we would have fun goofing around for a bit.

Bonus points for:
you are an expert, in anything
working up a sweat on the regular
having a fluid sense of gender and/or sexuality
you like techno/house/drum n bass
you think guru + premier was a combination that will never be matched