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38 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:42pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I was born in New Orleans, grew up in Atlantic City, came of age in Philadelphia (some where in there was a 2 year excursion to Maine), and then moved to the bay area 4 years ago. Whats that boil down to... not a clue but my friends like it. Other then than that, I like to think I am a silly yet rather self aware person trying to live a good life.
What I’m doing with my life
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- engineer working in tech, and working with people
- extensive biz travel, some of it international
- skiing as often as I can
- being in the moment
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- making Gnocchi
- packing and travailing light
- racking up airfare miles
- enjoying great food
- being silly / irreverent
- making jokes about vitamin D and children getting rickets
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well as a two year old in a restaurant once said, "Mommy that man has no hair"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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- I like books, I often have a stack of unread volumes on my kindle.
- Big fan of Radio Lab, The Moth, Planet Money, etc... basically any thing with a good narrative.
- Music... its great.
- Food, yea I like it... I once cooked professionally in a couple of brasseries to pay for school
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sharp knives, my cast iron skillet, skis and snow, intelligent people, passion, the list goes on ...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Turning my passion(s) into fullment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If its winter I'm either in North Tahoe, driving to Tahoe, or if this past winter was any indication... spending time in Jackson Hole. Otherwise It's anyone's guess.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I day dream about having a collection of horribly bad toupees.
You should message me if
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You would like to get together for a drink or tasty non-alcoholic beverage.