Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


46 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:34pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Okay), Dutch (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The only person here, I sometimes have to point out, who knows exactly how much I know about me. So if I make some leaps, I know they're leaps. If we're not clear then I lost you at hello ;)

Shamelessly meta-charismatic. But still able to throw down tenderness and genuine loving. A truly spectaculous energy.

Be ready for anything. From tranquility to the wild ride, from gentle cuddling to those crazy stories, from jaw-dropping irreverence to profound insight.

I have taken many many paths to get here, lived many lives in the span of one, with many more to come.

Looking for entanglements on emotional, intellectual, philosophical and chemical bases. Yes, all them.

I meet people easily in real life too...and have a whole world and life going you can not be the jealous type. We're too smart for that, honestly speaking.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have been exploring manhattan and environs, working like mad, making new friends, nurturing old ones, hanging out in the city, few trips here and there. Single and meeting lots of people, you'll have to be a powerhouse to capture my energy!

I work on Wall Street but I'm not a douche.

Activities: ...a little bit of everything, you name it, I'll do it. I'm an activity chameleon so whatever you're into, I'll be into, if I'm into you.

Latest (this summer in manhattan) solo activities: gourmet grilling (the hardwood kind) and cathartic urban roller blading (yes I'm safe I have played enough hockey so I can skate)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding the line between Blathering and bantering. Below: a long list and modesty is not named in there...however despite the shiny odd success I have been humbled a thousand times. As I say to work minions, we only learn through Shame and Agony.

I love to cook! Many international cuisines, from Indonesian to French. Wood-fired grilling, from brasilian to dry-rub, My FiDi doormen honored my use of charcoal on the roof deck. Prometheus was an amateur pyro in comparison. The doormen take steak medium rare.

I love to host and take care of people, from just one to a hundred guests -- no problem. And at family events, if I can't charm that salty auntie, no one can!

I am great at my job, leading teams who create amazing software, for business results. I'm an expert's my gift.

I am a talker (and then some). I get to trust right away with people. My silver tongue matches my prematurely grey lid (I refuse to colour my hair, or temper my wit).

I know more than a little about almost everything, cultures, languages, science, art, politics, history, geography, you name it. Consequently, I win at trivia games and excel at banter.

I can rip up a dance floor, but I find "structured dance" like Salsa counterintuitive -- I just like finding the beat and going with it. I'm a shameless grinder.

I like writing, but I don't get much practice these days. I am good with kids, it's because I am a big kid too. I love people, I'm the consummate people person. I'm a decent graphic designer, awesome with Lego, and I speak dog.

I can jet though airports like George Clooney. I've worked in more cities than I can remember, and travelled extensively on four continents. I've taken over 2000 flights, all in. But I'm not done, by a long shot. Places I've yet to be but would love to go with you: (South)East Asia, South America, Africa, the Arctic.

Athletic / outdoorsy / adventurous stuff: I play hockey, I cycle, I sail, I hike, I swim, I can't even list out all the stuff I like to do, but I'm not a freak about any of them. I just like everything, which maybe means I like nothing.

Oh, and handy? I've got plenty of power-tool prowess. And you thought YOU could handle studs. I was thinking to create an okc based "love house fund" and a few enterprising hypersexuals can help me build one each on beach and mountain.

I know a place in Costa Rica with caves to the ocean all the way from small coffee plantation plots in the mountain. For less than the price of a Buick. Where's your dream beach house my team will build it lol. If the answer is in your mind, I still haven't lost you.

Not long on brevity, however.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Credible audacity
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I really have too many of these to list out specifically, and besides, lists are boring.

I inhale books ranging from philosophy to fiction. Movies are a passion but I choose by story, director, and art...not by hollywood box office or actor. Shows are a non-starter, There is a tv in my apartment but I don't use it, I don't have cable -- waste of money, waste of time.

Music, all kinds, prone to the popular but always open to the new. Youtube on the iphone + bluetooth stereo = genius.

Food, well yes, I am a foodie. I believe in global variety, fresh ingredients artfully prepared, and I wish flavour country was a real nation state I could move to, not just a rating system I sometimes use with my friends. Meals make people happy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Confidence + Humility (in combination this is one thing)
Gainful employment
Licorice (it's a flavor not a shape)
My grills and fresh foods to cook
The ocean (lakes, glaciers, rivers, etc all acceptable substitutes)
Global mobility
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Apart from the infinite network of quantum entanglement tying together all living energies in the universe? Mostly, about love in all its forms and how nobody can receive love unless somebody gives it. And oh, I give it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night, especially since I am still pretty new to town. Exploring. With a date anything goes. I like to go a dinner party with friends or neighbours, sometimes I am hanging out with family. Sometimes I stay in and watch a movie, or read a book. Sometimes I go out dancing or to a show, or maybe just sit on a patio chatting. Sometimes I am travelling near or far. Sometimes I have to work late.

If I was in a relationship I would say all that could evaporate for marathon luv-ins. But that really requires you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you're not white, I'm probably browner in a bunch of ways than you are
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to spend time. Chemistry drives company. If you want to meet once in a blue moon, it won't work out between us. I am a very insightful judge of what I want. If I want you, prepare for a serious connection sooner than later. I'm not here to play games, play the field, serial date or fool around.