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My self-summary
I'm terrible at summarizing anything, let alone a profile describing myself. I wrote all this a while, and at times, have considering cutting it down a bit. Ultimately, however, what I wrote describes myself and how I feel pretty well. So with that said...

Hey there. My Name is Matt. And I'm just a guy looking for love in this big world. I'm a simple and yet complex dude with what I believe are good values. I believe in chivalrous things like holding open doors and being a gentlemen on a date. I would also describe myself as being pretty quirky with a sometimes strange sense of humor, but I like to think I'm fun dude to chill with. I joined this site, because sometimes it can be hard to approach a girl and just start up a conversation without knowing anything about them.

One thing I should also mention about myself is that I'm a geek. As you will see later in this profile, I mention that I'm a pretty big fan of comic books and video games. Seriously, the celebrities in my book are comic book writers, and while everyone else is talking about American Idol and survivor, I'll be getting excited because Rick Remender and Gabriel Hardman are taking over as the writer an d artist of Secret Avengers. However I would like to say right now that these things do not rule my life, so I'll ask that you not automatically assume that they do.

I have a lot to offer a girl. I'm a romantic, chivalrous, loyal guy with a lot of love to give. Hopefully this page shows that.
What I’m doing with my life
I work full time at Ability Beyond as a porter. I also used to work part time at Gamestop as a game advisor. I am of the mindset of working to live and not the other way around. Outside of that, i tend to do whatever. Sometimes, that might be popping in video game and sometimes it can mean opening up something to read or browsing around on the web. Sometimes, I go down to the city, Long Island, Westchester, or New Jersey. I'm constantly thinking about the future though. Lately, I've been trying to tap into my creative side and write ideas for stories, since I'd like to work in the comic book industry.
I’m really good at
I think I'm just good at being me. I'm a good listener, and I always try to listen closely and hear people out. I also very open and honest. I value communication in a big way, and try to put everything out in the open.
The first things people usually notice about me
I think just myself as a whole. I don't mean this is any way out of arrogance. I've always been someone who marches to my own beat, even in my own circles of friends, my level of interest in the things I like is very deep. Sometimes that makes it tough to relate people, because they might not be into the same things as me or as into them as I am. I still manage to get by though. Other things I guess would be what I wear. I'm not in any way someone who pays attention to fashion trends(you will NEVER catch me in skinny jeans), but I try to look good, though I do it my own way. I don't feel the need to always match, and I'll often buy clothes just because I think they look good, regardless of what they are meant for. Like I I like running shirts because they look futuristic to me. And I like stuff that other people would just find weird like like a T shirt with roaring lion and the word SWAG emblazoned beneath. And I love vibram toe shoes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
When it comes to entertainment, there's a ton of stuff I like. There is no way I'm gonna list all of it though, so here's a quick run down of things I enjoy

Movies: Action, horror, comedey, crime films, old movies, and superhero movies.

TV: Most TV is pretty forgettable to me. Occasionally, I'll find a good series to watch though.

Books: Horror, crime(especially noir), social commentary, philosphy, and I love comic books.

Video Games: I mostly play action oriented games. More and more though, I'm getting into role playing games though. I also like some survival horror games and fighting games. Anything with a good story and characters.

Music: The Red Hot Chili Peppers are and always will be my favorite band of all time. After them, comes Bill Joel, and various stuff from the 90's.

Food: Barbeque, pizza and some other Itlalian foods, Chinese, and Jewish deli pastrami sandwiches. Oh, and I do love me some seafood too. This past year, I went on vacation, and had seafood for breakfast every morning. It's a condition.
The six things I could never do without
No way am I going to be able to limit it to 6. I'm passionate about alot of stuff right now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Something that's always intrigued me is what governs and decides attraction. I've always been more the kind of person who feels that a person's personality is what will make me stay, because without that, you've got nothing. But I've also always been skeptical of people who say looks don't matter at all, because I believe you need to be attracted to someone physically in some way. After all, the exterior is the first thing you see. I've always thought about these things. I should also mention that something I've discovered about myself is I don't have a type. I don't care if you are preppy, geeky, sporty, or a true girly girl. Same goes for appearance. You can be slim, cut, or big and curvy. What I'm trying to say here is I'm not looking to put people in boxes. I would much rather look at you as an individual, and get to know you for who you are. Not a geek like me? I really don't care. That's not what matters. Are you a genuinely good person. Are you honest, open, and respectful? Do you like me for me? That's what I care about.

Other things I think about tend to be more political and philosophical like what's my place in the world? Can I still achieve the American Dream in these crazy complex times? And how genius and yet crazy of an idea tiny houses are.
On a typical Friday night I am
Don't really have a regimented plan for my Fridays or any other night of the week for that matter. I could be at my computer writing something or browsing the web. I could be playing a video game, reading, or watching a movie. Otherwise, I'm out with friends or chilling at their place. So the possibilities are really endless.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ok, I've never actually mentioned this before on here, but I'm so sick of having great conversations that get ruined by this, so I'll just mention it right here.

I'm more than a little embarrassed to mention this, but here goes: I don't drive yet. YET! I want to emphasize the yet, because it's not something that I intend to have be a permanent thing, and it is by no means something that should scare you off. I had depth perception issues as a kid, and it slowed things down. Ask me more if you'd like to know more. It does not make helpless or hold me back at all. I'm very well versed with traveling in terms of hopping on train or figuring out a bus schedule. In fact, I live minutes from a train station in Brewster, and from there, can very easily get down to NYC in a timely fashion. I've even ventured out to Long Island and New Jersey. I know that sounds insane, but I'm very adventurous. And even locally, still manage to get around and am able to make plans with friends or be spontaneous too. Not only am I able to do things that I want to do despite not having a car, I'm also very capable of doing things that I have to. I work full time, and I'm there every day. Literally, other than vacations, I have a spotless attendance record. I also have no problem at all helping with gas money if you want to venture out to me.
You should message me if
This is obviously up to you. I'm not going to say what everyone else says, and claim to better than every other guy on here, because I don't know every other guy on here. Sure I've heard from women I've wrote that a lot of guys on here just want sex, but really I can only speak for myself, and what I will say about myself is this:
If you are looking for something serious and someone who will be loyal and give you their all, I am that kind of person. The people I care about I give 110 percent and beyond. I will go to the ends of the earth, to hell and back(pick any metaphor really) to be there for you. I'll be that guy you can call after a tough day. And I'll be also be a fun guy for all the awesome days too. Again it's up to you, but truthfully, I think you should just message me. You're not gonna regret it.