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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:50pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Less than $20,000
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm terrible at summarizing anything, let alone a profile describing myself. I wrote all this a while, and at times, have considering cutting it down a bit. Ultimately, however, what I wrote describes myself and how I feel pretty well. So with that said...

Hey there. My Name is Matt. And I'm just a guy looking for love in this big world. I'm a simple and yet complex dude with what I believe are good values. I believe in chivalrous things like holding open doors and being a gentlemen on a date. I would also describe myself as being pretty quirky with a sometimes strange sense of humor, but I like to think I'm fun dude to chill with. I joined this site, because sometimes it can be hard to approach a girl and just start up a conversation without knowing anything about them.

One thing I should also mention about myself is that I'm a geek. As you will see later in this profile, I mention that I'm a pretty big fan of comic books and video games. Seriously, the celebrities in my book are comic book writers, and while everyone else is talking about American Idol and survivor, I'll be getting excited because Rick Remender and Gabriel Hardman are taking over as the writer an d artist of Secret Avengers. However I would like to say right now that these things do not rule my life, so I'll ask that you not automatically assume that they do.

I have a lot to offer a girl. I'm a romantic, chivalrous, loyal guy with a lot of love to give. Hopefully this page shows that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work full time at Ability Beyond as a porter. I also used to work part time at Gamestop as a game advisor. I am of the mindset of working to live and not the other way around. Outside of that, i tend to do whatever. Sometimes, that might be popping in video game and sometimes it can mean opening up something to read or browsing around on the web. Sometimes, I go down to the city, Long Island, Westchester, or New Jersey. I'm constantly thinking about the future though. Lately, I've been trying to tap into my creative side and write ideas for stories, since I'd like to work in the comic book industry.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've been told I'm a good listener. I'm ok at drawing. I can play video games well when I'm into them.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I’ve got an embarrassingly large head with a receding hairline. also one my eyes since I was born with a condition that causes one eyelid to be slightly lower than the other one. that eyelid is also connected to muscle in my mouth so it rises slightly when I open my mouth. I have absolutely no idea why this happens, only that it does. Also on dates, I have been told, I come off as nervous and other times as confident. You decide.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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When it comes to entertainment, there's a ton of stuff I like. There is no way I'm gonna list all of it though, so here's a quick run down of things I enjoy

Movies: Action, horror, comedey, crime films, old movies, and superhero movies.

TV: Most TV is pretty forgettable to me. Occasionally, I'll find a good series to watch though.

Books: Horror, crime(especially noir), social commentary, philosphy, and I love comic books.

Video Games: I mostly play action oriented games. More and more though, I'm getting into role playing games though. I also like some survival horror games and fighting games. Anything with a good story and characters.

Music: The Red Hot Chili Peppers are and always will be my favorite band of all time. After them, comes Bill Joel, and various stuff from the 90's.

Food: Barbeque, pizza and some other Itlalian foods, Chinese, and Jewish deli pastrami sandwiches. Oh, and I do love me some seafood too. This past year, I went on vacation, and had seafood for breakfast every morning. It's a condition.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
No way am I going to be able to limit it to 6. I'm passionate about alot of stuff right now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm always thinking about something. Sometimes my thoughts are along creative lines and pertain to ideas for things I draw, and stories, and songs that I write. The other thing I think about is how the trajectory of my life is gonna play both in the short and long term ways. These thoughts can be everything from wanting to find an awesome girl to how can I better myself, and achieve all the goals I have.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Don't really have a regimented plan for my Fridays or any other night of the week for that matter. I could be at my computer writing something or browsing the web. I could be playing a video game, reading, or watching a movie. Otherwise, I'm out with friends or chilling at their place. So the possibilities are really endless.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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None of this really private, so lets just do fun imteresting about me! :) ( wow, that sounded corny)

I don't mind distance. I know this may not seem like something that one would could consider a private matter, but I felt like I should address my take on it. I think that distance is something that tends to scare a lot of people. The general consensus in a lot of cases is if you are trying have a relationship, it is best to live close by to that person, so you can be able to spend time with that person, and if the 2 of you are an hour or more away from each other, then how can you expect things to work? So why am I writing all of this, your probably wondering? Well, a lot of the people who I have written to are from New York and New Jersey, and I'm sure that if you are from those states, you are probably wondering why this guy from Connecticut is writing to you. Well the way I see it, I'm not that far away from those areas. I actually am right on the border of Connecticut and New York, and the train Station in Brewster. So I'm only a train away from Manhattan, and from there, I can easily get to the areas of New York, Long Island, and New Jersey. I was also born in New York, so I like going down there.Plus, I also feel that if you come to like someone quite a bit, you tend to be willing to make compromises that make distance easy to deal with.

Another thing about me is that I don't judge people based on how they look. I go much more on personality. Now, that being said, i do need to be physicaly attracted to someone in order to be drawn in. But I don't determine attraction the way other guys do. Things like race, color, and body type don't mean anything to me. If I find myself attracted to someone, that's pretty much that. I have spoken to and met women from here and other places. All of them have had different body types and appearances. You see I'm not like other fellas on this site. So many guys out there will look at a girl, and if she is carrying any weight, then instantly, they are not interested in her. I find that sad, and I've never understood why men think like this. To me, it's not neccasarily how big or small a girl is, but it's her individual features and shape that determine whether or not I find her attractive. I've spoken to and met girls who are very beautiful, and not all of them were size zeroes. When I'm interested in someone, I'm able to see their beauty of them inside and out. Again though, it's really your personality that will win me over. I really hope this paragraph came out ok.

Oh and I have a leather jacket with glow in the dark skulls on it.
You should message me if
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Truthfully, this part is up to you. I can't make that call for you. I can offer up a few ideas as to why I think I'm worth messaging. I think I'm an interesting guy with a lot to offer someone. I will say that if you do want to message me though, have a desire to actually want to chat. I've no problem sending a few emails here and there to kick start the process, but I'd much rather see if we click by talking and if there's enough interest, actually hang out. I'm one of those people who likes to keep things going at a good pace, not super fast, but I don't want to learn everything about you through emails or reading your match questions, because then what else is there to learn moving forwards when we finally do talk and meet. Plus why should I let a series of match numbers determine whether or not I like someone. I'd much rather see what you are all about by chatting with you, and answering each others questions that way, and hanging out and seeing how we click. I'd like to think I'm different from other guys. Yeah, we all say that, but I mean it. I'm certainly a nerd, so if you are one as well, then that works for me. But even if you are not one, that is fine too. I'm open to meeting all types of women. As long as you are genuine, respectful, and affectionate, then you will be my "type."