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39 Dearborn, MI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:14pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Working on university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, German

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My self-summary
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I am a poet, a filmmaker, a research engineer and radio DJ - in that order, nothing more, nothing less. Interested in more, read for yourself, just google, alan contino. I do a rockabilly, Psychobilly & Surf rock radio show each week - Mondays 4-6pm, 89.3fm
- former "band geek", Euphonium soloist/concert performer
- been to 23 states, 4 countries and planning on many more
- former martial artist
- honorable, loyal, courageous, spiritual and logical
Looking for an intelligent and beautiful woman.

Interesting food for thought: Women receive an average of 300 message per week where as men receive an average of only 1 (slightly more if receiving a reply). I'm averaging only 1 per month (including replies) - not sure what that means but I'm not giving up - Therefore I promise to reply to every message received.
What I’m doing with my life
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- freelance photographer for 25 years
- Electrical engineer specializing in Visual & Audio electronics / effects
- Part-time (adjunct) Professor, Chief of research laboratory - the VTL
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Physics, Engineering, Philosophy, Free verse Poetry, Beat-Writing, Cinematography, Visual Effects, Martial Arts. I was a featured Euphonium soloist for several years. I'm a published writer in both poetry and prose.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm a greaser (rockabilly) w/ big blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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William Burroughs' Naked Lunch, George Orwell's 1984, Terry Gilliam's Brazil, George Lucus' THX 1138, and pretty much everything David Lynch does. Surf Rock, Gothabilly, Psychobilly, Dark Wave, Euro Synth Rock. Gourmet foods, Sushi, fine wines, micro brews.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My eyes to learn from reading & marvel at beauty. My ears to hear other opinions and escape into musical expression. Pencil & paper, to write out my ideas and release emotion in poetry. Food. Clothing. Shelter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Making it through to the next day. Photography. Music. Literature. Psychology.

"Problems within a specific culture exist because the causes are perpetuated rather than the solutions." - E. A. Contino
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying live music or taking in a great cerebral visually stunning film.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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- Thin / Athletic / Petite / Average (weight proportionate to height)
- potential jogging / workout / hiking partner
- who live within 15 minutes (-20miles) of Dearborn
- if you're looking for good conversation or friendly chat
- if you're interested in an activity partner, as in dance partner, hiking partner, workout, etc. or just need a quality person to hang out with

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