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lonely_joy

32 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
May 10
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Other (Okay)

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My self-summary
i'm on a hiatus in the battle for love. trying to rediscover fun and a little depravity. looking for love is the best way not to find it and i'm trying to be fine with that. so here goes.

i don't fit in a box. i work with kids and follow politics but i find phrases like "social justice" empty. and i blast rock n roll, more and more noise - oh now, louder! i like watching football and going to the theater. i drop GRE vocab words and street slang in the same sentences. i work out at a boxing gym and i write fiction (some poetry) too. i'm a good cook but the least picky eater you will ever meet. i enjoy staying at home but want to live afar (and have - NYC to southern Africa).

oh and convenience is overrated - which is why i have no car, no microwave and no smartphone; and i prefer grimy locations to clean ones.

i'm up for almost anything. especially drinks and dancing. i'm also hoping to meet more local artist friends.
What I’m doing with my life
teaching by day. eating/sleeping by night. depravity on the weekend. playing writer. thinking it over.
I’m really good at
attending your gig or show or whatever event is in your honor. having a response for that. oh, and hand-washing laundry.
The first things people usually notice about me
maybe my youthful good looks. but i'm more interested in things rarely noticed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
lately a lot of noise. the stooges too (always!).

"orange is the new black."

greek mythology and the uncensored oral history of punk.
The six things I could never do without
i'm a survivor: food, water, shelter, air and a friend. a match might be useful too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how i can make this sandwich more delicious. and how to stay true to my principles (cause the world is always trying to break them).
On a typical Friday night I am
maybe the gym. meeting up with friends.
or else writing, followed by a drink.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i want to meet artist friends a lot! but, yeah, i'm also pretty much here for casual dating/sex. looking for love online depresses me, so that's it. at least i'm honest.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
FRIENDS:
- you are a cool local artist. i'm really trying to get more involved with that, so if you know of any good happenings, want me to check out your show (or whatever) or wanna read my stuff, let me know.

OR on the other front (and just being up front):
- you want a cute white guy to be your dog. i'm kinda in a submissive phase right now. :)