Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a scientist working at a major facility in Maryland. I have
lived in the area for about 5 years. Prior to that I lived and
worked in a variety of locations in the US and overseas. Away from
work I visit a gym regularly (Pilates/Zumba/aerobics) and train in
martial arts. Other interests are photography, music (mainly
HR&HM), movies (wide range) and science fiction (written, film
I am looking for a woman with similar temperament and interests as
myself for dating and subsequently a long term relationship. The
most important trait I am looking for in a woman it that she says
what she means and means what she says. For long term compatibility
there must be the motivation to get things done, the ability to
solve problems, the skills to deal effectively with difficult
situations when they arise, the determination to see plans through
to fruition, the intelligence to make difficult decisions, the
integrity to keep to a decision once its been made, the
individuality to be be your own person and the closeness to work as
a team towards shared goals.
Other traits I find attractive are the ability to hold intelligent
conversations, openness to new ideas, flexible thinking, financial
responsibility, self-discipline and consistency.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
For as long as I can remember I always wanted to be a scientist. It
took me a long time and a lot of effort to get there and I finally
did it. Now I am looking to develop my other interests in other
areas, including finding a partner to share them with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Organizing, planning, logistics - particularly having to deal with
chaotic and awkward situations.
Writing software (which I do a lot of the time).
Keeping in touch with my relations scattered across the world.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am quiet and tend to let others speak first.
I have a wide range of interests.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books : Science Fiction, particularly the great classic works.
(Asimov, Heinlein, Clark, Smith, Herbert.)
Movies : Wide range. (Lang, Kubrick, Scott, Wier, and many
Shows : TV : Documentaries, Battlestar Galactica, The 4400,
anything produced by Gerry Anderson. Theater : Various tastes. Even
used to appear in amateur theater.
Music : Mainly hard rock and heavy metal. (Attended many concerts
in teenage years and 20s. Not been to any for a while.)
Food : Like Mexican, Chinese, Italian. Willing to try many
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Internet access.
2. Intelligent conversation.
4. Regular meals.
5. A good night's sleep.
6. Swiss army knife.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What goes on in the world around me, both immediate and much
What makes people tick. (Philosophy, psychology, development, NLP,
How the world works and where its going, on multiple scales
Whatever new thing I am learning at the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the local grocery store.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That you will have to meet me to find out.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have personality traits similar to mine. You have interests in
common with mine. You are looking for a long term relationship
based on the same values as I have. You would like to get to know
me better, exchange ideas about the interests we have in common and
find more things in common.
Who are you looking for?
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