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62 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 50–68
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 22
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English, French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Tall fun-o-phile seeking mentally able fun-o-phile. According to a panel of close friends, I am: creative, smart, funny, direct, down to earth, progressive, independent, a good friend, and a bit eccentric and unconventional.
I have two fantastic children. Both are in college.
One of my passions is my work. I’m a psychotherapist… (only when I’m in my office!) and I am very interested in people and how we all work. I got into this field after getting a BFA. Art is my other passion. I had always been interested in psychology so I tried to merge the two, then became a therapist. Now I sometimes draw, paint and generally love to create things..
What I’m doing with my life
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That's what I'm trying to figure out. I ended a 22 year marriage a while ago, my kids are older, I feel like I'm starting a new adventure!
I have opened my heart again.

I recently moved from a wonderful but huge house to a small, cozy place with a large back yard that I am currently working on populating: flowers, succulents, cacti, vegetables and herbs. LOTS of weeding.
2014 update: Lots more plants in but oxalis continues to torture me.
Ace Hardware, a place I adore, actually sells oxalis. ?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
my work.
grilling wild salmon with lemon and capers.
being a friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm 6 feet tall and have red hair. I am not inconspicuous.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Mysteries: Elmore Leonard, Hiaassen, Stieg Larsson - I loved the Swedish films of his first 2 books. Also, Patricia Cornwell. anything by Oliver Sachs. David Sedaris makes me laugh until my stomach hurts. His sister and what she does with lemons. Others: Alice Sebold, Annie Lamott, Caleb Carr and lots of others. I love to read.

Music: all kinds of music. Some favorite artists: Ray Charles, Elvis Costello, Bob Dylan, Tom Waits, The Radiators, Beethoven, Yoyo Ma and Pablo Casals( I love the sound of a cello.), Ron Carter, The Buena Vista Social Club, Aretha, Alison Krauss, Annie Lennox, Bonnie Raitt. I like blues. I like jazz. Pat Metheny.

Movies: One favorite film is The Silence of the Lambs. Why I like this film will need to be explained in person. The Lives of Others, Beasts of the Southern Wild. Documentaries. I love watching old films: Nick and Nora films, anything with Bette Davis, Tennessee Williams adaptations. Some of Dr. Who. Recently watched with friends 5 years of Battlestar Gallactica in 3 months.
"Orange is the New Black". Liked Downton Abbey, found Breaking Bad too depressing. I don't watch TV very often.
Listen to NPR to get a sense (such as it is) of what the world is doing, adore Terri Gross. Also, Colbert and Jon, The Moth Radio Hour.

I love going to art shows, modern dance performances, theater, going to hear music, and taking drives to explore new places.

Food: ...I like food and truly appreciate it when someone else cooks. I like to cook and can cook some wonderful dishes, but I am not very good or creative with cooking and I don't cook very often. On my own I'll eat yoghurt, fruit, nuts and peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. Cooking and eating is much more fun when there is someone fun to do it with. I love sushi, but rarely eat it because of all of the endangered fish species and mercury. What comes into my mind: chicken lemon piccata from La Traviata on Mission St., Donburri, freshly picked tomatoes and basil with fresh mozzarella cheese. pomegranates, mangoes and anything freshly picked. And I adore good bread.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my kids
good books
good friends
working out
living near an ocean
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how people work. I think a lot about the state of this country and the world. I worry about my kids. I think about how I talk to my dog and wonder if he really understands everything that I am saying. I think that he does.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
watching a movie with friends, in my yard if it's light out, making something...if it's the first Friday of the month I might be at Art Murmur in Oakland.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are smart, active, appreciate and use humor, like adventures, are independent and you want to share pleasures and good conversation. You want a friend and a lover and you're not afraid of commitment. You're able to talk about your difficult feelings and not act on them. You don't take yourself too seriously and kudos if you love to cook.

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