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lookin4trulove

25 / M / straight / Single

Olathe, Kansas

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am romantic, geeky, and loving.

My Self-Summary

I don't know what to put here really. I am a nice guy. The type that you would see passed over for the hunk down the line. Yeah, story of my life. But that is okay. I figure somewhere, sometime, there will be someone out there that matches my qualities and make the perfect coupling.

Until then, I am living up to my style. I am straight edge. Non smoker, no drugs, don't even drink (maybe once a year). Don't believe in the party or club life either.

I'm a gamer as well. Normally playing Halo, Raw vs Smackdown, or more recently the awesomeness that is Dragon Age: Origins.

Also I like to watch Wrestling, as in the WWE. Sorry if that turns you away, but I am being honest here from the get go to allow no illusions.

What I’m doing with my life

I do have a job, and it's fulltime. . Always the one that volunteers to work the shift nobody wants. Well kind of expected now since I got promoted again, but still; i don't care. As long as it's a job I enjoy working. I work tech support for a web hosting/domain reseller company in the Kansas City area. It's fun. I work the overnight 4/10 shift, so from 9pm till 8am.

I WANT to get into the Gaming industry or Animation/anime industry, but so far... no go. No where around here to get my foot int he door, but that's fine. Still a plan.

I’m really good at

Writing. I like to write stuff on a regular basis. It seems nerdy so I won't get into the details. But I can say I have dabbled in fan-fiction for numerous tv shows I loved.

Bowling. I used to be on a league with some friends. I've got tons of trophies :), from singles and team tournaments. First place to third place. It varies.

Being a Friend. Without a doubt, my friends are the most important people to me. I love them. Without them, who knows where I would be. And that is why I will always be a great friend to them and respect their decisions and help them however I can.

Other stuff.

The first things people usually notice about me

Blue Eyes. Yeah... Cliche, but true. I have had people just look at my eyes without knowing me and blurting out something about 'f*ckable'. I don't know how that relates, but i guess it has something to do with the way they look lol.

I am shy. Very. But I can warm up quite quickly with someone if they have similar interests and I am able to let my guard down.

I am also a gentleman. And people will notice this as I tend to be the one that holds the door open for people, regardless if I know them. ... Yeah...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A) Books: Halo: The Fall of Reach. Halo: First Strike. Halo: Ghost of Onyx. Lord of the Rings. The Hobbit. Xanth. Any of the Xanth series books by author Piers Anthony.

B) TV Shows and such: Flash Forward. Modern Family. Smallville. Stargate Universe. Stargate Sg1. Stargate Atlantis. Doctor Who. Torchwood. Legend of the Seeker. Archer. Veronica Mars. Battlestar Galactica. Samurai Girl. Deal or No Deal. Heist. Dark Angel. Andromeda. American Gladiators. Doctor Who. Torchwood. Terminator: Sarah Conner Chronicles. Knight Rider. Hercules The Legendary Journeys. Xena The Warrior Princess. Sliders. Firefly. Serenity. WWE RAW. Smallville. That's So Raven. Phil of the Future.
B) Cartoons/Anime: One Piece. DBZ. Escaflowne. RahZephon. Dragon Ball Kai. DGray_man. Heroic Age. Reideen. Yu-gi-oh!. TMNT. Sonic X. Yu-Gi-Oh. Shaman King. King Gainer. Kim Possible. Justice League Unlimited. Venture Bros. Teen Titans. X-Men Animated Series. X-Men Evolution. Spider-Man Animated Series. Spider-Man unlimited. Wolverine and the X-Men. Silver Surfer. Futurama. Family Guy. The Simpsons, American Dad. The Tick: Animated Series. Witch Hunter Robin. Dragonauts. DGray_man. Sealab 2021. Big O. Ehh basicly anything on Scifi Channel, or old school saturday morning cartoons, and new ones too. LoL I'm pathetic.

B) Movies: EagleEye. GIJoe. Couple's Retreat. IRONMAN!!! X-Men Origins: Wolverine. My name is Bruce. Stan Helsing. Watchmen. Incredible Hulk. The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Taken, Tinman mini-series, Undersiege, Starwars, X-Men 3: The Last Stand, Employee of the Month, Larry the HealthInspecter, Stargate SG1: The Arc of Truth, Indiana Jones, Police Academy (full series), Mortal Kombat, STreet Fighter, Xmen, Spiderman, 300, Monty Python and the Holy Grail. Robinhood Men in Tights. Equilibrium. Walking Tall. Indiana Jones. The Simpsons, Alladin, Shrek, The Fifth Element, Live Free or Die Hard, Die Hard, Die Hard 2, Die Hard 3, Boa vs Python, Python, Python 2, Boa, Dragon Hunter, Most scifi channel made movies, X-men 2: X-Men United, Naked Gun, Naked Gun 2, Naked Gun 3, Spider-man 2, Spider-man 3, The Transformers, Harry Potter, D-Wars, Fantastic Four 2, Mortal Kombat, The Mummy, The Mummy Returns, The Scorpion King, The Nanny, Suburban Commando, The Marine, I Robot, Beowulf, Monty Python Movies, Harry Potter, Terminator, Terminator 2, Terminator 3, Rush Hour, Rush Hour 2, Half Past Dead, Half Past Dead 2, Mr and Mrs. Smith, Sin City, 300, Any superhero movies. Any movie starring Jean Claude Van Damme, Jackie Chan, Jet Li. Any movie starring Christopher Lambert. Any movie starring Steven Seagal. Any movie starring Jim Carey, Steve Carrel, Owen Wilson, Vince Vaughn, Ben Stiller, Dane Cook, Jessica Alba, Kristen Bell, The Rock, or even Will Farrel. Basicly anything scifi, fantasy, action, thriller, or even some what kiddish.

C) Music: I like all sorts of music. PRetty much anything. Evanescence, Kiss, AC/DC, Breaking Benjamin, Shinedown, Creede, Aerosmith, Greenday, Linkin Park, Nickel Back, Led Zeplin, Kid Rock, Brooke Hogan, Mosdef, Godsmack, Limp Bizkit, White Zombie, Def Leapord, ect.

D) Food: My favorite soda/pops are Creamsoda, BlackVanilla Cherry Coke, Livewire Mountain Dew, but I'll drink just about anything. My favorite snacks are of the chocolate variety lol; Brownies, Browny cookies, chocolate chip cookies (Fresh baked, mmmm), and some other stuff like Pretzels, chips, ect.

The six things I could never do without

In no particular order:

Friends
Family
Computer/Internet
Videogames
TV/Movies/Anime
Love

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What's next in my life. Where I want to be in ten years. If I will ever get married and settle down. Where that woman of my like-nature is hiding and how long till I find her or she finds me. Why everything I like to watch on TV gets canceled.

And so forth.

On a typical Friday night I am

Well it depends on my work schedule. I work overnights so I don't really have any time to do stuff. But regardless of that I just don't go out to do anything. I am not a fan of the party or club scene. Never cared for bars either. I might go catch the latest movie in the theater, but other than that I am likely at my apartment watching something on television or on the computer.

Yeah I know, sounds boring.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Hmm...

- I can't Swim. Not a fan of it either. Love hot tubs though.

- When I was around the age of 10 I was playing around at a hotel pool and my trunks came off. for some reason i went nuts and ran around the hotel lobby and halls in the nude -- instead of grabbing my trunks from the bottom of the pool lol.

You should message me if

You would like to talk to a nice guy that believes romance and love still exists with passion.

Or maybe you fell for me already... wishful thinking right? ;)

Or if you enjoy similar interests as I do.

You like video games, anime, wrestling, or some combination.

And heck if you aren't wanting to date me, or whatever, I can always use more friends. Never against that.