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68 Santa Rosa, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 50-65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 1
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Special Diet
Not at all
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I guess I am not so easy to know, being a shy sort, but I try to be worth the effort. I am always at a loss for words about myself... I am self-aware, seasoned with life's learning. I claim credit for being focused on self-development rather than self-promotion. (I cringe in the face of the myriad profiles that seem self aggrandizing) I am a human being, I have flaws, I have made mistakes and had successes. I subscribe to the philosophy of "heads I win, tails I learn"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it... while working as a semi-retired single man. Now thinking a partner in work, play and life is what I really want.
I am in pretty good health, doing something I like to do, and have carved out an enjoyable little niche to share with someone who appreciates simple pleasures.
I am not wealthy, and have to work in my "retirement", but I am lucky enough to have a trade that i enjoy, and which rewards me.

I have been alone for a while, after a long term relationship (12 years). I honestly had sworn off "romance" and abandoned the desire for intimate companionship. As a result of some poignant online experiences in the last year or so I have become increasingly aware of how much I miss and need that...for real.

Honestly, I am out of the "recovery" phase of a lost relationship at this point, and am now fully available for friendship and to what could follow from honest communication and shared interests and experiences.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, thinking it through, making it better, companionship, communication of the heart,
using my hands creatively, constructively or sensually.
Also good at hanging in when it counts.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
long hair, green eyes, working (gentle) hands.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
the works of Mark Twain, Ken Kesey, Tom Wolfe, Gore Vidal
"Being John Malkovitch, The New Land, The Life of Brian"
Leanard Cohen, Bob Dylan, Joni Mitchell, Neil Young, Kate Bush, John Prine, Iris Dement, Alison Krauss.
sushi, good vegetarian cuisine, good bread and cheese, the best coffee available
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good food, grandsons, engaging work, intimacy, companionship, beautiful skies (especially sunrise and sunset) my laptop
Ok thats more than 6
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the state of the world, our wacky frightening modern political reality, the future of my grandsons, how to improve my craft, what a difference love makes
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually home, surfing the web or the channels, sometimes watching the giants play, thinking about life and love
...come over and we can watch your favorite movie
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
how private would it be if i typed it here? I guess the answer is see me off the record
You should message me if
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you get the urge